It’s been a challenging couple of years, hasn’t it? Last Halloween, we were still grappling with a pandemic, uncertain about the safety of trick-or-treating. This year, while some remain unvaccinated, millions of Americans have received their shots, and health experts like Dr. Lisa Green and the CDC are giving the green light for kids to enjoy Halloween festivities.
Yet, there are still those neighbors who insist on denying candy to kids who aren’t in costumes or who don’t recite the perfect “trick-or-treat.” Seriously, it’s hard to roll my eyes far enough at this attitude.
We all know the type—the ones who refuse candy to anyone who knocks on their door without a costume. They are the Halloween Grinches, and honestly, their attitude is exhausting. There are countless reasons why a child or teen might show up at your door without a costume, and frankly, it’s no one’s business. Perhaps they have sensory sensitivities that make costumes overwhelming, or maybe their family can’t afford one. A teenager could be going trick-or-treating on a whim after deciding they’re still young enough to enjoy it. As the mom of a 12-year-old boy who just wants to fit in and avoid attention, I get it.
But here’s the thing: he’s still a child. He still wants to have fun collecting candy with friends, and what does it harm anyone if he’s not in costume? It’s a bit odd for adults to expect kids to perform for a few pieces of candy. If you open the door to some respectful trick-or-treaters without costumes, just toss them a handful of candy and move on.
Honestly, those who insist on strict standards for who deserves their coveted candy should consider turning off their porch lights and reflecting on their priorities. They’re missing the entire essence of Halloween, which is about children enjoying themselves.
People often complain that kids these days are too glued to their screens, but when they actually venture outside, they get critiqued for not wearing costumes? If you’re that concerned about “gatekeeping” candy, maybe it’s time to step back and let others enjoy the simple joys of childhood—no strings attached.
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