10 Insights on Raising a Large Family

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My partner and I never envisioned ourselves with a large family. If we had expressed such intentions during our dating days, it’s safe to say the other would have been quite apprehensive. Yet here we are, embracing our bustling household, and we wouldn’t trade our experience for anything. The dynamics of larger families seem to spark curiosity, so let’s delve into 10 insights I’ve gathered about managing a larger family unit.

1. The Definition of ‘Large’ is Relative.
   For some, having more than two children qualifies as a large family. As a parent of five, I consider anything above seven to be truly large. It’s all about perspective—much like how one perceives age, where “old” is always a decade or two older than oneself.
2. Spontaneity is a Thing of the Past.
   In a household with multiple children, every outing requires meticulous planning. Once, I impulsively decided to leave for a trip a day early. However, it took us a staggering FIVE hours to finally depart—proof that spontaneity is not practical when managing a large group.
3. Factor in Extra Travel Time.
   If the average family takes four hours to drive somewhere, anticipate a six to eight-hour journey with a larger crew. Frequent bathroom breaks, diaper changes, and allowing the kids to stretch their legs at rest stops all add time to your travels.
4. Private Moments Become Rare.
   The more children you have, the higher the likelihood of interruptions during personal time—including those intimate moments with your partner. If you can seize a moment of romance during laundry transfers, you’re doing well. A locked laundry room can be a lifesaver.
5. Laundry is an Endless Cycle.
   I can confidently say I’ve never lost a child in the laundry room, but the risk of an avalanche of unmatched socks is ever-present. The laundry never truly ends, and it can feel like a mountain of clothes is always waiting to be tackled.
6. Aspirations Shift.
   Where I once dreamt of traveling the world, my current aspirations involve industrial-grade home appliances. A set of heavy-duty washers and dryers, a walk-in freezer, soundproof rooms for each child, and a spacious kitchen with a table that accommodates everyone have become my new goals.
7. Grocery Expenses Can Be Daunting.
   Managing the grocery budget for a large family is no small feat. I often think that owning land and growing our own food might be the only way to afford feeding my boys as they enter their teenage years—even considering livestock.
8. Forget About Good Gas Mileage.
   Driving a large family means gas efficiency becomes a luxury. I have yet to find an affordable vehicle that comfortably accommodates everyone without guzzling fuel.
9. Early Bedtimes Are Essential.
   New friends often find it surprising that my children have a 7:30 PM bedtime. This is crucial for maintaining sanity, as the quiet that follows their bedtime is a much-needed respite. Yes, my partner may sometimes doze off on the couch, but those moments of stillness are cherished.
10. Noise and Chaos Are Inevitable.
    Living with a large family means embracing the constant noise and chaos. I have accepted that my home will never resemble a magazine cover. The signs of children living here are everywhere, and I have come to terms with that reality.

Will there be more children in our future? Only time will tell…

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In summary, raising a large family comes with unique challenges and rewards. Each day is a blend of joy, chaos, and love, making every moment worthwhile.