You know what’s a bit gross but super interesting? Babies and kids have this incredible knack for figuring out who’s connected to whom just by watching how people share saliva. Yup, that includes things like kissing, sharing food, or even using spit to clean up a smudged face. A recent study reveals that even the tiniest tots pick up on these saliva-sharing cues to understand the dynamics of relationships around them.
The research, which was featured in Science, showed that infants, toddlers, and young children use these cues to identify who is likely to care for them. “What this study shows is that babies are really good at discerning not just who is connected, but how they are connected,” says Emily Carter, the lead researcher and a psychologist at the University of California.
The Study
In the study, kids from three age groups watched two different video scenarios. In one, a woman shares a slice of orange with a puppet, and in the other, she simply hands it a ball, which causes the puppet to cry. The researchers found that babies and toddlers expected the woman to help the crying puppet more when she had shared the orange slice — obviously because of the saliva-sharing involved. But if she had only handed over the ball, they didn’t expect the same level of care.
Insights from Experts
Dr. Mia Roberts, a psychologist from Stockholm University, who wrote about this research, suggests that this ability is likely an innate skill since even very young kids can see its importance. However, there’s still a need for more studies to figure out if this is a global phenomenon or something that varies across cultures.
It’s worth noting that the study had its limitations — it only included a few hundred kids and didn’t account for different cultural backgrounds. So, it’s hard to say whether this saliva-sharing cue is universal. The researchers also want to stress that kids can form strong bonds with caregivers who don’t engage in saliva-sharing, like daycare providers or preschool teachers, who play vital roles in children’s lives. “We don’t expect daycare workers to develop the same attachments as a family member,” Carter explains. “That doesn’t mean they’re not doing an amazing job.”
Takeaway
So, just remember, every time you share a fork with your toddler or give your partner a kiss, your little ones are watching and learning about family closeness. If you’re curious about home insemination options, check out resources like Make A Mom, which offers at-home insemination services, including a re-usable option. You can also see how at-home insemination works by visiting their guide here. And for more on artificial insemination kits, Make A Mom has a great selection available. For an insightful discussion on pregnancy and home insemination, don’t miss IVFBabble!
In summary, babies are pretty perceptive when it comes to understanding relationships through saliva-sharing behaviors, which adds a fascinating layer to how we bond.

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