Embarking on an adoption journey can be both exhilarating and overwhelming. Having traveled to China three times to bring our children into our family, I can attest that packing for such a trip is a unique challenge. Unlike a typical vacation where you might pack light, preparing for an adoption trip feels more like trying to fit your entire household into a suitcase. The 50-pound weight limit can make it hard to include everything you might need.
On our latest trip in March 2012, my partner and I brought along our two older sons, aged six and seven. Over 17 days, we visited four major cities in China, making careful preparations to ensure our family’s transition was as comfortable as possible.
Key Considerations for Packing
- Snacks: While trying local cuisine can be exciting, the reality is that after a few days of unfamiliar foods, you might crave the comfort of home. Pack plenty of snacks like granola bars, fruit snacks, and cookies. Our picky eater primarily survived on ramen noodles, so consider your child’s preferences as well.
- Medications: Prepare for the inevitable; getting sick is almost a guarantee. Bring a comprehensive first-aid kit with medications for various ailments, including upset stomachs, headaches, and antibiotics. Foreign pharmacies may have confusing labels, so it’s best to be prepared.
- Clothing: Bring enough outfits for at least five days, plus a swimsuit if the weather permits. Avoid buying clothes for your new child ahead of time, as sizes can vary greatly. We learned this the hard way when our daughter needed sizes we hadn’t anticipated.
- Gifts: It’s customary to present gifts to officials and caregivers involved in the adoption process. Pack these items in bags with tissue paper for easy distribution. You won’t witness the unwrapping, but it’s an important part of the process.
- Essential Documentation: Don’t forget your paperwork and passports, as these are critical for the adoption. A Chinese-English dictionary can be helpful for navigating language barriers—though you may not use it often, having it can provide peace of mind.
- Cash: Be prepared to carry a significant amount of cash, as transactions may not always be straightforward. You might want to plan to donate a portion to the orphanage, easing the burden of carrying funds.
- Flight Necessities: Consider the long hours spent in transit. Plan for boredom with entertainment options like tablets or DVDs, and pack a change of clothes in case of luggage issues. Have lollipops on hand to soothe your child during turbulence.
- Entertainment for Downtime: You will spend substantial time waiting in your hotel room, so bring games or devices to keep your children occupied. Don’t forget to pack chargers and adaptors, as well.
- Stroller or Carrier: A stroller or baby carrier can be invaluable while navigating airports and city tours. Ensure it can support your child’s weight to avoid mishaps.
- An Open Heart: Finally, approach this journey with love, patience, and compassion. Adopting can be as challenging as it is rewarding, but the joy of welcoming a new family member far outweighs the difficulties.
Summary
Packing for an adoption trip requires careful thought and preparation. By anticipating the needs of both you and your new child, you can ensure a smoother transition. From snacks to medications, and from gifts to entertainment, every item plays a role in making your journey a success.
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