25 Essential Lessons for My Son Before He Graduates

home insemination kit

As my son prepared to graduate, his excitement for the future was palpable. While he envisioned a life filled with freedom, I found myself compiling a list of essential lessons I hoped I had imparted over the years. Here are 25 things I believe he should know before stepping into adulthood.

1. Approach my advice critically. I’ve been wrong before, and I’ll likely be wrong again.
2. However, don’t dismiss everything I said; I was right about some important things too.
3. I may have stretched the truth at times—there’s no tooth fairy, and sticking your hand out of a moving car won’t result in amputation.
4. There were moments when I humorously contemplated selling you. Rest assured, it was only a fleeting thought.
5. Remember, our relationship is a two-way street. You’ve taught me as much as I’ve taught you. As a future dad, I hope you learn from your kids too.
6. Good manners matter—always chew with your mouth closed and keep your elbows off the table. They reflect on how you were raised.
7. In hindsight, I should have encouraged you to voice your opinions more. Respect is important, but standing up for yourself is equally crucial.
8. Apologies are not a cure-all. Actions have consequences, and it’s vital to take responsibility.
9. Maintain personal hygiene. Even if you can’t smell yourself, others can. Shower regularly.
10. Wash your hands after using the bathroom—it’s basic hygiene. Never trust someone who doesn’t.
11. Stand up for justice. As a white male, you will have privileges; use them to uplift others, not to diminish their rights.
12. A man’s treatment of his mother often reflects how he will treat his partner. So, ease up on the jokes about nursing homes.
13. If you ever feel the urge to harm a woman, remember I will always be there to keep you in check, no matter how old I am.
14. You are intelligent, and I have wisdom. The distinction will be clearer as you age.
15. Heartbreak will occur, and it will hurt deeply. It’s a universal experience, and it will get better—trust me.
16. Limit junk food intake. The short-term satisfaction of fast food can lead to long-term health issues.
17. Courage is not the absence of fear but the resolve to act despite it.
18. Never text while driving, nor ride with anyone who does. It’s irresponsible and dangerous.
19. When doing laundry, opt for cold water to avoid shrinkage and damage to your clothes.
20. I will continue to make mistakes as your parent. My unsolicited advice stems from love and experience, even when it feels intrusive.
21. Be generous. Share what you have, especially with those in need.
22. My love for you is unconditional. No matter your actions, that love will never waver.
23. Laughter is essential for a healthy life. Make it a daily habit, even if it means laughing until you snort.
24. Crying is not a weakness. Embrace your emotions; they are part of being human.
25. Death is a part of life. When my time comes, know that you and your sister were my greatest joys. My love for you is immeasurable.

For further insights on parenting and home insemination, check out our other resources like the home insemination kit and the cryobaby home intracervical insemination syringe kit combo. Additionally, for those navigating challenges related to pregnancy, this resource offers valuable support.

In summary, these lessons encompass the values and wisdom I hope to pass down to my son. They are designed to guide him not just as he graduates, but throughout his life as he navigates the complexities of adulthood.