10 Surprising Enjoyments I’ve Discovered Since Becoming a Parent

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In my youth, I had limited tastes. Sushi was off-putting, beer was repulsive, and my idea of a vacation revolved around destinations prefixed with “Disney.” However, as I matured, I learned to appreciate the finer things in life: wine bars, international train travel, and the delightful flavors of pad thai. Then parenthood entered the picture, and my preferences shifted dramatically. The very things I once dismissed have taken on a new allure through the lens of motherhood. Here are ten examples:

1. Chain Restaurants: My inner gourmet used to scorn these establishments, labeling them as places with subpar food and lackluster service. Yet, despite the plethora of quality dining options, I find myself gravitating towards familiar chains like Friendly’s, which offers ice cream for breakfast and a welcoming atmosphere for my children. Here, they can enjoy themselves freely while I appreciate the balloon as a parting gift.
2. Children’s Programming: Initially, I viewed the bright colors and nonsensical music of kids’ shows as utterly ridiculous. However, when I placed my infant in front of a Sprout program, it became a captivating experience that could occupy them for hours. Even though my toddler criticizes the louder characters like Dora, she still begs for merchandise featuring them. Kudos to those who create these engaging programs!
3. FaceTime and Skype: Once, I saw no need for video calls, but after spending a night apart from my toddler, I discovered their value. A FaceTime session with her resulted in a heartwarming view of her face—albeit the upper left quadrant—and despite the messiness of her appearance, it was a joyful connection.
4. Family Trips: As a child, I couldn’t grasp why my parents found joy in museums, national landmarks, or family visits—all of which deprived me of funnel cake. Now, however, I relish the chance to take my kids on adventures, including wineries and breweries, and yes, funnel cake included if they behave!
5. Shopping Malls: I used to dread the mall, associating it with endless wandering and boredom. However, with winter babies, I’ve come to appreciate the indoor space it provides for strolls, running errands, and of course, indulging in a Cinnabon.
6. Minivans: The thought of driving a minivan filled me with horror—it felt like a complete loss of individuality. Yet, as my husband and I struggle to fit everything into our sedan, I’ve come to admire the practicality of the minivan, despite the parking challenges it presents.
7. School: In my youth, school served only to fill time between sleeping and enjoying life. Now, it’s a necessary break that allows me to both rest and have fun while my kids learn.
8. Stickers: Once, I couldn’t fathom the allure of stickers. Now, they’ve invaded my home—my shoes, fridge, and even my children’s clothes bear their marks. It’s a sticky situation, and frankly, I’m not a fan.
9. Kid Entertainment Venues: These places were once an afterthought, barely registering in my mind. However, post-motherhood, I’ve developed a keen awareness of playgrounds, amusement centers, and petting zoos, often feeling frustrated when I can’t use game tokens for my coffee.
10. Kids: They can be sticky, loud, and messy, often interrupting my peace and leaving a trail of chaos. Yet, despite the challenges they bring, I find immense joy in every moment spent with them—except when it comes to stickers.

In conclusion, the journey of parenthood has turned many of my past dislikes into newfound sources of joy and appreciation. It’s remarkable how life’s perspective shifts with the arrival of children. For those considering parenthood, resources such as CDC’s fertility page and at-home insemination kits can be invaluable. Additionally, if you’re looking to enhance your fertility, check out these supplements.