As my son recently celebrated his sixth birthday, my partner and I find ourselves content with our cozy family of three. However, we frequently encounter questions about when we plan to expand our family, along with misconceptions regarding only children. To address these concerns—and to support those who may have friends with single children—I present ten compelling reasons for our choice. Ultimately, the last reason is the most significant.
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Reduced “Unfairness” Complaints
My son may express disappointment over not getting a second scoop of ice cream or not being able to adopt a pet, but he rarely voices the phrase “that’s not fair.” Without siblings to compare himself to, he tends to appreciate what he has. -
Financial Flexibility
While we aren’t wealthy, both my partner and I have stable jobs that allow us to prioritize our son’s public schooling and allocate funds for vacations, college savings, and a comfortable retirement. This financial freedom permits us to support his interests, such as art classes or martial arts, without the strain felt by friends with larger families. -
Cultivated Taste
Since his early childhood, we have taken him to a variety of restaurants, introducing him to diverse cuisines. With no siblings to turn their noses up at unfamiliar dishes, he has developed a refined palate. His current favorites? Sushi and roasted vegetables. -
Environmental Impact
While I don’t compost or have a garden, I take comfort in knowing that having one child contributes to a lower carbon footprint. -
Undiminished Pet Affection
Our dog continues to be a central part of our family dynamic, receiving just as much, if not more, attention from my son, who dotes on him as if he were a sibling. -
Personal Growth Opportunities
Having one child allows me the flexibility to pursue personal interests or educational opportunities without feeling like I’m sacrificing family time. If I wanted to enroll in a course or start a new hobby, the path is clear. -
Travel Opportunities
From the age of two, my son has had a passport and has become an excellent travel companion. We can explore new destinations without the challenges that come with managing multiple children. -
Enjoyable Car Rides
I didn’t realize how rare pleasant car journeys were until I experienced the chaos often present in larger families. With just one child, our car trips are filled with laughter, conversation, and games—much more enjoyable than bickering and chaos. -
Chosen Family Connections
Although my son doesn’t have biological siblings, he shares close ties with several cousins who he adores. This extended family is free from the complications sometimes associated with blood relations. -
A Complete Family Dynamic
Ultimately, the most important aspect is that we feel our family is whole just as it is. Our happiness and satisfaction are what truly matter.
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In summary, having an only child has many advantages, from financial stability and travel opportunities to a more harmonious family dynamic. Our family feels complete, and that’s the most important aspect of our journey together.
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