This year, rather than setting unrealistic New Year’s resolutions that I am likely to abandon within days—such as cutting back on snacks, swearing less, or reducing screen time—I have chosen to establish a few achievable goals. No, let me rephrase that: I WILL achieve these goals.
Lowering Expectations
To start, I am committing to lower my expectations for myself. The previous year was a whirlwind of excitement, but it also brought its fair share of challenges. Instead of celebrating my personal milestones, I spent far too much time comparing my journey to others who seemed to be accomplishing greater feats. This led to a constant feeling of inadequacy as I strived to outdo myself.
This time around, my focus is on embracing a more realistic perspective. I don’t need to write the bestselling novel or embark on the largest book tour or garner the highest number of reviews. What I truly need to do is relax. Enjoy the journey. Lighten up. This applies not just to my writing, but to all aspects of my life.
The Power of Saying “No”
Additionally, I aim to master the skill of saying “no.” No, I cannot shift my plans at the last minute to volunteer at school. No, I don’t have the bandwidth to chair that committee, despite my genuine interest. No, I can’t arrange childcare just to accommodate someone else’s schedule. If something doesn’t fit into my life, I resolve to say no without excessive apologies or the temptation to relent.
I can do this. Just—no.
Being Kinder to Myself
It’s essential for me to be kinder to myself and recognize my limits. This should not be overly complicated. On a practical note, I also intend to drink more water—after all, hydration is key!
Allowing for Setbacks
I must also allow for the possibility of setbacks. For those interested in exploring the topic of home insemination, one of our other blog posts can be found here. Moreover, for those seeking authoritative resources, check out this link that provides excellent information. Lastly, consider visiting this resource for comprehensive insights into pregnancy and home insemination.
Conclusion
In summary, this year’s resolutions revolve around self-acceptance, setting realistic expectations, and learning to say no. By prioritizing my well-being, I aim to navigate the challenges of life with greater ease and enjoyment.
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