After the arrival of my daughter, I had the opportunity to re-enter the workforce just three months later. The following six months were a whirlwind of emotions; I felt a mix of joy and restlessness, often pondering whether to shift careers or even leave my job altogether. Then, a few weeks ago, a promising opportunity emerged at a company that seemed just right for me. I was elated to land an interview but also overwhelmed by anxiety—“Oh no, I actually have to go through an interview now!” Yet, excitement bubbled beneath the surface—“Here I come, world!”
I prepared diligently. I researched the company, scoured their website, and educated myself on their mission and values. I ensured I got a restful night’s sleep, maintained a healthy diet, and made time for exercise. I even treated myself to a new hairstyle with highlights and a fresh cut—money was no object. (Well, it was, but I justified it at the time! My husband and I dined on cereal for the following week.) I carefully selected my outfit, consulting my most fashion-savvy friends to put together the perfect look.
Here are some key takeaways that may help other new mothers facing similar challenges:
- Arrange for Childcare: Ensure your baby is at their preferred childcare before your interview. This will give you the necessary time to prepare without the added stress of managing a child. I mistakenly kept my little one at home, attempting to juggle her needs while getting ready. This led to a chaotic morning, complete with her trying to launch herself off the bed and an unexpected nap protest. Trust me, trying to apply makeup while handling a fussy baby is a recipe for disaster.
- Prioritize Your Preparation: Don’t think you can postpone tasks like makeup or reviewing notes until just before the interview. I thought I had ample time and planned to freshen up at a nearby coffee shop. Instead, I spilled my concealer all over my makeup bag, leading to a frantic scene of applying makeup and studying notes in the parking lot with mere minutes to spare. Not ideal.
- For Breastfeeding Moms: Be sure to pump before leaving home and double-check that you have all necessary equipment, including power cords. I found myself awkwardly pumping in my kitchen sink while wearing my perfect interview outfit after dropping my child off, a moment that realization hit me: I was definitely not in Kansas anymore.
- Plan Your Route: Map out your journey the night before. Relying on your phone’s GPS can lead to unexpected complications. I ended up lost and scrambling to fix my GPS while racing against the clock, which only added to my stress.
- Don’t Forget to Breathe: Interviews can feel like high-pressure situations, but remember that they are not your only chance. There will be other opportunities on the horizon. Recognize your worth beyond motherhood—your skills and experience are valuable. You are more than just a caregiver; you are capable and intelligent.
In the spirit of Florence and the Machine, remember to shake off the stress and be your authentic, incredible self. Tackle each interview as it comes, taking one breath at a time.
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In summary, preparing for your first interview after becoming a mother can be daunting, but with the right strategies and mindset, you can navigate this new phase successfully.
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