Since seventh grade, I’ve been highlighting my hair, to the point where I’ve lost track of my natural color. If you were to stroll down the drugstore aisle of hair dyes, you might find a box labeled “Blahhh” or “Meh”—that’s probably a close approximation of my real hue. This lackluster color has led me to invest quite a bit of money every few months, ensuring I don’t end up resembling a frazzled woman with six inches of dark roots trying to rock an ombre look.
Recently, as I was getting my hair done, a young stylist began sharing the trials of her tumultuous relationship with a “bad boy.” I listened intently, offering the occasional gasp of shock. After she finished recounting her romantic woes, I felt compelled to impart some wisdom from my experiences, albeit with a pop culture twist: “Sweetheart, you may date the rebel, but you should marry the dependable guy.”
Her puzzled expression told me everything I needed to know: “Who?” she asked. Dylan McKay and Brandon Walsh? Did she really not know about the legendary show, 90210? It was a moment that made me feel both old and nostalgic for the guidance I had during my own adolescence. For the sake of my own kids, I pondered whether I should simply lock them in a room to binge-watch all ten seasons of my beloved show. I can only imagine the discussions we’d have afterward, touching upon the essential lessons learned throughout the series.
Core Takeaways for My Children
Here are a few core takeaways I would want my children to grasp as they navigate life:
- Avoid Embarrassing Situations: Don’t get intoxicated at prom and pass out in front of authority figures. Charm alone won’t lead to a rescue.
- Mind Your Choices: Don’t wear the same dress as your best friend to the formal, or date the rebellious girl who dabbles in drugs. Remember Brenda’s pregnancy scare? Life lessons come at a price.
- Appreciate What You Have: Just because your friends live in bigger houses or have cooler stuff doesn’t mean their lives are perfect. They might envy your down-to-earth, sarcastic mom who makes great pepperoni rolls.
- Steer Clear of Bad Habits: Substance abuse, gambling, or cheating in any form is never the right path. It’s important to understand the repercussions of your actions.
- Understand Boundaries: Violence is never acceptable. A partner who resorts to aggression does not love you. I’d take a stand if anyone harmed my kids—no questions asked.
- Prioritize Yourself: When faced with difficult choices, always choose your own well-being, just like Kelly did when she declared, “I choose me!”
These six essential lessons encapsulate what I hope my children will learn as they grow into well-adjusted adults. Parenthood is a breeze with such straightforward guidance, right?
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In summary, drawing from the iconic lessons of Beverly Hills, 90210 provides a unique lens through which we can guide the next generation. Through thoughtful discussions and a dash of nostalgia, we can equip our kids with the wisdom needed for life’s challenges.
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