Updated: Aug. 21, 2023
Originally Published: April 9, 2013
It all begins one evening when your little one, let’s call him Max, declares that his room is far too dark. This soon evolves into a belief that terrifying creatures from the depths of darkness invade his space each night. As a parent, it’s distressing to witness your child’s fear. Naturally, you want to comfort them, but you also desperately want them to sleep soundly in their own bed instead of yours. Here are some strategies you might consider:
Monster Spray
Create a whimsical concoction with your child! Take a spray bottle and fill it halfway with water. Then, gather some non-toxic ingredients from your kitchen. Lemon juice? Monsters can’t stand that! Squeeze a bit into the bottle and assure Max that this magical spray will banish the pesky creatures. Spray it around the room before bedtime and say goodnight.
Why this might work: Children often have vivid imaginations and may believe in this playful notion of protection.
Potential issues: You may inadvertently affirm their belief in monsters, leading to a new fear of waking up to find their room littered with “dead” monsters.
Invest in a New Nightlight
A common fear of the dark should have a straightforward solution. Take Max to the store and let him select a nightlight that excites him—perhaps one featuring his favorite character. Once it’s plugged in, kiss him goodnight and close the door.
Why this might work: The added light can alleviate nighttime fears, creating a comforting atmosphere.
Potential issues: You might worry about fire hazards, and eventually, Max might realize he isn’t as scared of the dark as he thought but is still frightened nonetheless.
The Sneaky Exit
You can lay down next to Max until he dozes off, then attempt a silent escape back to your own room.
Why this might work: If he’s a heavy sleeper, he may wake up feeling reassured that he is safe and alone, diminishing his fears over time.
Potential issues: If Max awakens and finds you missing, he may panic and worry about your safety, leading to trust issues down the line.
The Ultimate Bribe
At this point, you might be so worn out from the bedtime battles that you resort to a grand promise—a trip to an amusement park, for example. You say this in a moment of exhaustion and desperation, hoping it will motivate him to sleep through the night.
Why this might work: Bribery can be effective; what child wouldn’t want an exciting reward? This tactic often has a high success rate.
Potential issues: If it works, you’ll need to follow through with your extravagant promise, which might strain your budget. There’s also the risk that the strategy fails and you’re left with no effective alternatives.
In reality, if none of these solutions resonate, consider investing in a larger bed for yourself and perhaps a prescription for sleep aids. These could provide the necessary relief from the nighttime challenges you face. Keep in mind that the monster spray won’t be effective in your own room either.
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In summary, while there are various strategies you can try to help your child combat their nighttime fears, the effectiveness of these methods can vary significantly. Ultimately, finding the right approach may require patience and creativity.
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