Parenting
Updated: Sep. 19, 2017
Originally Published: June 3, 2013
A friend of mine welcomed her first child just a month after I had my second. She frequently shares on social media how motherhood has altered her life. She talks about her back pain, the struggle with those lingering extra pounds, and wonders when she will feel like her old self again.
I responded honestly: you will NEVER feel the same.
Your body will bear the marks of motherhood. The achiness in your back may become a constant companion. Your breasts might lose their firmness, and your abdomen could retain that little pooch. Your hips might widen permanently. Changes to your hair, skin, and even bladder control will remind you that life is different now, for better or worse.
Sleep will never be the same; you might find yourself in pajamas more often than in regular clothes. Privacy in the bathroom will be a luxury you won’t experience for years. You may find yourself discussing diapers and bowel movements far more frequently than you ever imagined. Crumb-free floors will become a thing of the past, as will wearing clothing that isn’t marked by stains. Regular nail and hair appointments may fall by the wayside, and daily chores like laundry and dishes may often feel overwhelming.
Yet, what I didn’t share with her is this:
Your smile will grow wider. Your laughter will be filled with deeper joy. Your eyes will shine brighter with love. Your arms will feel fuller, and your heart will overflow with emotion. Your capacity for love will expand beyond what you thought possible.
So, yes, after welcoming a child (or several), you will never be the same again. However, that’s perfectly fine because you won’t want to be.
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In summary, while motherhood brings about undeniable changes to your body and lifestyle, it also enriches your life in ways you might not expect, filling it with love and joy that far outweigh any physical alterations.
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