As a school bus driver, my affection for the children I transport is unwavering. I truly enjoy the quirky things they say and their innocent antics. However, interactions with some parents can be quite challenging. Here’s a list of remarks that could be reconsidered:
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“My child won’t ride the bus, it’s too dangerous.”
It’s important to understand that school buses are engineered for safety, even without seat belts. Their design includes high, padded seats that protect children in the event of an accident. Statistically, children are more likely to be in danger when driven in a personal vehicle than on a bus.
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“My child was bullied on the bus, and you did nothing.”
This unfortunate situation does occur. We take bullying seriously, and if reported, we address it swiftly, which may involve notifying parents or even barring the aggressor from riding the bus. Unfortunately, many times we are unaware of incidents unless a child speaks up.
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“Are you certain it was my child?”
Yes, I’m confident that your child, who I have been driving for years, was involved in the incident reported. This isn’t the first time we’ve had to discuss such behavior, and yes, I must document it, which could lead to temporary suspension from bus services.
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“But the other kids started it.”
While that may be true, it doesn’t excuse retaliatory behavior. Both children may face consequences. Remember, two wrongs don’t make a right.
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“I know my child is a troublemaker.”
Acknowledging your child’s behavior is a start, but it’s essential to take actionable steps to address it. Encourage them to improve their conduct rather than dismissing it.
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“What do you mean you can’t come to my house?”
Bus routes have specific limitations, including private roads and safety concerns in adverse weather. We require safe turnarounds, and not every road is suitable for a bus, especially in winter.
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“I’m so sorry I’m late.”
While your apology is noted, please remember that your tardiness affects all children on the bus. I cannot leave your child waiting unattended at the bottom of a long hill.
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“I didn’t see you.”
It’s astonishing how many drivers claim this after passing a bus with flashing lights. The visibility of a large yellow bus should be evident, and it raises concerns about their driving abilities.
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“It wasn’t me who passed the bus.”
We log the license plates of vehicles that disregard stop signs. It’s frustrating when drivers deny their actions, especially when the evidence is clear.
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“How do you manage to drive this bus without losing your cool?”
Being a bus driver is not glamorous, but I cherish the hours, school vacations off, and the joy of watching children grow. There are tough moments, yes, but receiving heartfelt notes from the kids makes everything worthwhile.
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In summary, it’s essential to foster respectful communication with your child’s bus driver. Understanding the challenges they face while transporting children can help create a more positive environment for everyone involved.
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