Dear Weary Mom,
I completely understand where you are coming from. You are feeling drained.
Drained from the endless cycle of daily routines that feel like a never-ending loop. Exhausted from managing seat belts, sippy cups, diapers, wall art created by tiny hands, and the chaos of tantrums. As winter approaches, the added chore of navigating hats, boots, mittens, and gloves only compounds the fatigue. Oh, the gloves.
You are tested constantly, your patience stretched thin, and every word you utter feels like it needs careful consideration. Privacy? What privacy?
Even though your love for your children is immense—beyond measure—there’s an undeniable guilt that creeps in. You wouldn’t trade motherhood for anything, yet there are days when the idea of stepping out the front door and just keeping going sounds tempting. Seeking a peaceful place, where you can interact with someone who connects with you on an adult level instead of someone who relies on you for everything.
Loneliness can be a surprising companion in this journey. You anticipated the exhaustion but not the isolation. At times, it feels unbearable, and you might wonder if you will make it through the day. There are moments you want to surrender, times you feel like a failure for raising your voice or shedding tears, or simply wishing for an escape. But remember, you are human.
Motherhood is incredibly challenging, but you will emerge on the other side. There will come a day, often unexpectedly, when you realize that the moment you’ve been longing for has arrived. Just yesterday, I had one of those moments. I have been rocking my youngest child, Emma, to sleep since her birth. While she doesn’t technically need it anymore, she enjoys it—and I find immense joy in those moments.
However, yesterday she surprised me by stating, “I don’t want to rock anymore,” and climbed into her bed. Just like that, she had moved on. All those daydreams of uninterrupted showers and tidy kitchens suddenly lost their charm. I found myself thinking of snuggly pajamas, soft blankets, and precious moments that would soon become memories.
There is an end to this stage of motherhood, and it may arrive sooner than you expect. No matter where you are in your journey, take a moment to savor what you love—whether it’s rocking in a chair, reading a bedtime story, or enjoying a cozy movie night. Be present in those fleeting moments, for they are limited.
It may feel like the challenging times will last forever, but they eventually fade. Unfortunately, when the tough moments pass, the sweet ones that you cherish often slip away too.
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In summary, motherhood is a journey filled with highs and lows. Cherish the beautiful moments amidst the chaos, and remember that you are not alone on this path.
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