7 Reasons Why the Terrible Twos Are More Manageable Than Infancy

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As I navigate the tumultuous waters of the terrible twos, I find myself searching for justifications as to why my toddler’s current challenges—such as tantrums, mood swings, and assertiveness—are more favorable than the days of swaddling an infant and managing sleepless nights. In moments of chaos, like when a stare-down ends with a headbutt or a flurry of protests from a tiny tyrant, it’s helpful to remember the struggles of infancy. Here are seven reasons why I’m embracing these tumultuous toddler years:

1. Less Fragility: Toddlers are more resilient than infants. Just recently, little Ethan tumbled down some concrete steps, scraped his nose, and wailed—not from pain, but because his cookie broke. Compared to the delicate nature of infants, this is a relief.
2. Improved Communication: While my toddler may not heed all my instructions, he can articulate his desires and respond to questions like, “Are you hungry?” This reduces the constant guessing game that comes with caring for a newborn.
3. Better Sleep for Everyone: Announcing bedtime can trigger meltdowns, but after the initial chaos and countless bedtime stories, we both enjoy a full night’s rest. Take that, swaddled infants!
4. Increased Independence: Hovering over a baby is an unavoidable reality, but with a toddler, I can observe from a distance, allowing me a moment’s peace. While Ethan may not always let me relax, I appreciate the option to sit back occasionally.
5. Participation in Daily Tasks: After helping Ethan with personal hygiene, he can toss his own diaper, clear his plates, and even pick up toys (when prompted, of course). Infants, on the other hand, require all the effort.
6. Reduced Worry: Infants come with a host of health concerns due to their developing immune systems and limited care options. Toddlers, while still prone to illness, tend to bounce back quickly, making the cycle of sickness less alarming.
7. Unique Personalities: There’s a distinct individual emerging in my toddler. Ethan surprises me daily with his playful antics, whether he’s pretending to be asleep for back rubs or dancing to any beat. His little affirmations, like “Good job, mommy!” are heartwarming.

Yes, I may be sweating as I wrestle a 36-pound bundle of energy out of the park, or justifying my second glass of wine with the phrase “I earned it,” but I also enjoy uninterrupted sleep, a bit of assistance, meaningful conversations, and occasional praise. All things considered, it could be much more challenging; I could still be caring for a baby.

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Summary

Navigating the challenges of the terrible twos can be daunting, but it also comes with perks that make parenting more enjoyable than during infancy. With increased resilience, improved communication, and the ability to engage in daily tasks, toddlers offer a unique experience. They can contribute, communicate, and showcase their growing personalities, making the effort worthwhile.