As the festive season approaches, I find myself confronted with questions about my stance on holiday traditions—specifically, the myth of Santa Claus. Am I one of “those people” who opts not to perpetuate this story?
This inquiry often raises eyebrows among family members and friends. However, it’s essential to scrutinize the reasoning behind promoting the Santa Claus narrative. Yes, some may argue it’s a cherished “tradition,” but many traditions exist that aren’t necessarily beneficial. If we consider the notion of tradition as a means to foster family bonds and create lasting memories, I recognize that secular families may not match the experiences often found in religious households.
Nevertheless, our family has its own set of traditions that do not rely on Santa Claus. Each December, we select and adorn a fresh Christmas tree. I enjoy baking my favorite holiday cookies while listening to various festive tunes. On Christmas Eve, my son’s grandparents join us for a special dinner featuring a deep-fried turkey—usually after I’ve spent hours searching for the flavor injector I misplaced months ago. We prepare traditional sides and warm wassail, followed by gift exchanges. Sometimes we even sing carols, and my father reads “The Night Before Christmas,” just as he did for me in my youth. The following day is spent relaxing, playing, and enjoying cookies—all of which are traditions that don’t require Santa’s presence.
I am not opposed to sharing tales from diverse cultures, including the legend of Santa Claus. The value of myths lies in their ability to inspire and enchant, not necessarily in their factual basis. Some argue that believing in Santa is a magical aspect of childhood—who would want to take that away? However, I believe that my child can have a joyful holiday experience filled with love and family without relying on a mythical figure. Studies indicate that children from various backgrounds, including those who do not celebrate Christmas, have turned out to be happy and well-adjusted adults, despite not having expectations tied to a jolly man in a red suit.
Reflecting on my childhood, I recognize that the Santa narrative did little to enhance my experience. I recall instances where “Santa” would visit, often portrayed by a neighbor, which felt disconnected and confusing. The magic of the holidays for me was found in the real traditions: the tree, the music, the cookies, and the time with family.
The desire to instill the Santa myth often stems from our own longing for childhood innocence and wonder. Personally, I find fulfillment in celebrating family unity and the joy of the season without needing to cling to fictional tales. Isn’t that magic enough?
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In summary, while the Santa Claus myth may be a common tradition, it is not essential for creating a warm and festive holiday experience. Families can cultivate meaningful traditions that promote love and connection without relying on the story of Santa.
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