In my perspective, being a child of a military service member is one of the most challenging roles one can take on. You didn’t select this lifestyle; your father made the decision to enlist, and I chose to marry him, fully aware of the difficulties we would face. However, you and your sister were brought into this world without a choice, becoming “military kids” who have navigated this unique life with dignity, earning our admiration.
When you were born, your father was fortunate to be on shore duty, allowing him to be present for your entire first year. We thrived together as a family, with him there to read bedtime stories and play with you. Unfortunately, as is common in military life, that time was fleeting. At just 14 months old, he was deployed.
I vividly recall the night before he left, holding you as he read “My Sailor Dad.” We both shed tears, unsure of how you would cope with your father’s absence. I can still picture the moment we had to leave him on the boat, you clinging to him, calling out “Dada” repeatedly. It broke my heart to see you struggle to grasp why he had to go.
The initial weeks were particularly difficult. I was pregnant with your sister, and we had to adjust to this new reality. You clung to me more than usual, but soon adapted to our new way of life. We utilized technology to stay connected with your father, using FaceTime during his port calls and engaging with programs like United Through Reading. Your daily inquiries about when Daddy would return were heart-wrenching, but your excitement on homecoming was unforgettable. Despite the challenges, your resilience made us immensely proud.
As for your sister, from the moment she entered the world, she too embraced the reality of having a military father. Your father returned from deployment just in time for her birth, but was then immediately called away for training, missing that precious moment. The weight of this was heavy on both of us, yet we reminded ourselves of the mantra, “It is what it is.”
The night before he departed once again, he expressed concern about whether your sister would forgive him for his absence. I reassured him that both you and your sister would understand, and that growing up as military children would be full of challenges, requiring inner strength to persevere. His courageous decision to serve his country inevitably impacts your lives in ways we never anticipated.
Regardless of the distance or circumstances, please remember that we take immense pride in our military children. For those looking to support military families, consider exploring options like United Through Reading or Operation Homefront.
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In summary, being a military child comes with unique challenges and rewards. The strength and adaptability required foster character traits that will serve you well throughout life.
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