A few months back, I found myself parked outside my child’s school, anxiously waiting for dismissal. In that moment, inspiration struck for a writing piece I had to jot down before it escaped my mind, joining the multitude of tasks I often forget.
In a whirlwind of urgency, I rummaged through my vehicle and unearthed what I hoped was a clean napkin. Desperate times call for desperate measures, after all. Regrettably, my phone was back home on the table, and I needed something to write with. As I scoured the depths of my car, my heart soared when I discovered half of an orange crayon under the seat. I quickly scribbled down my idea: “reasons women should self-pleasure” and left it visible, knowing that it would vanish from my memory otherwise.
Once my son, now in fourth grade, hopped into the car, I promptly forgot about the napkin until he began reading it aloud, sounding out “mas-tur-bate.” Naturally, he inquired about its meaning, and I explained. I assured him that it’s a normal practice, as long as it’s done privately.
In my eyes, I was multitasking effectively; a pitch for work led to a necessary conversation with my child — mission accomplished. Moms excel at navigating this chaos.
I’ve stated it before: working women are incredible, stay-at-home moms are incredible, and those juggling both roles are nothing short of heroic.
Working from home often means you’re handling multiple responsibilities simultaneously, such as responding to emails while tending to a crying infant or cooking dinner. You learn to adapt quickly for important calls, sometimes scrambling to meet tight deadlines in between playtime or caring for a sick little one. Efficiency becomes your mantra, and you realize that to meet the demands of both your job and your family, you must blend the two seamlessly.
While it is possible to compartmentalize your parenting and professional duties, it rarely happens. Often, dinner is prepared with one hand while you’re still in work mode, as the maternal instinct never really switches off. Your ability to balance these roles is commendable; you strive to work smarter, allowing you to devote more time to your family, your career, and yourself.
Boredom is a rarity. The constant shift from work tasks to home duties ensures that you remain engaged. When you finally get a moment to focus on work while the kids play nicely, or vice versa, it feels like a mini-vacation.
And let’s be honest, there are perks to working from home, like taking a video call while wearing pajama bottoms beneath a blazer. As long as unexpected interruptions don’t occur — like a toddler bursting in without warning — you can savor these little victories.
You quickly become adept at finding distractions for your kids, saving special toys or movies for when deadlines loom. When this tactic works, you feel like a superhero, mastering the art of a look that says, “Not now, unless there’s blood involved.”
I cherish my work, in large part because it allows me to stay home with my children. I made a conscious decision to avoid choosing between my professional aspirations and my family. I love that they see their mom managing work tasks while also tackling everyday chores. (They also witness my less glamorous moments, like binge-watching old shows while snacking on Cheetos. Perfection isn’t the goal.)
Motherhood is multifaceted, and there’s no single approach that fits all. Even during hectic times, I appreciate the flexibility that working from home provides, enabling me to pursue my dreams while nurturing my children.
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Summary
Working from home presents a unique set of challenges, often requiring moms to juggle multiple responsibilities simultaneously. While chaotic at times, this lifestyle offers flexibility and the opportunity to engage with both work and family life. By embracing multitasking and finding ways to merge professional and parental duties, mothers can thrive in both realms.
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