Healthcare is a topic that resonates deeply with many, especially given its pervasive influence on American lives. As discussions in Washington unfold about policies that affect millions, I would like to share a deeply personal experience regarding my daughter’s reliance on Medicaid.
On March 23, 2007, my nearly two-year-old daughter, Mia, was diagnosed with a brain tumor. At that time, my husband and I both had stable jobs—he had been with his employer for five years, and I had been working for nine. I was fortunate to have transitioned to part-time work after Mia was born, allowing me to balance my professional life with being a mother. Our family was grateful for the comprehensive benefits provided by our employers.
However, the demands of Mia’s care soon became overwhelming, prompting me to leave my job. After her surgery to remove the tumor, we were devastated to learn that she had relapsed just six weeks later, necessitating another urgent surgery and a regimen of chemotherapy requiring frequent hospital visits. Although we tightened our financial belts, we managed to cope with the challenges that lay ahead.
While many cancers follow established treatment protocols, Mia’s diagnosis of papillary meningioma left us without a clear plan. The lack of research meant that we could only hope the treatments available would be effective. Fortunately, at first, Mia responded well to the chemotherapy. Her lung lesions disappeared, and we were relieved to see no signs of tumor growth in her brain.
However, the treatment came with significant side effects. Each chemotherapy cycle led to a five-day hospital stay, followed by a period of recovery that often included a second hospitalization for IV antibiotics due to the risk of infection. For two weeks each month, our lives revolved around her treatments, but we held on to the joy of spending one week a month enjoying the simple pleasures of life—trips to the park and playing outdoors.
This grueling routine continued for six months until we were met with devastating news: Mia’s kidneys were failing due to the chemotherapy. Her medical team recommended stopping the treatment, harvesting healthy cells, and proceeding with a stem cell transplant. This was a significant escalation in her treatment, akin to running a marathon after completing a 5K.
Our insurance, however, denied coverage for the transplant, leaving us in a precarious situation. In December 2007, we were fortunate that our state mandated insurance for children. After our employer’s insurance denied our appeal, the hospital staff guided us through the process of applying for Medicaid through Illinois’s All Kids program, which ultimately became a lifeline for us.
Each month, we received a Medicaid card that authorized Mia to access the life-saving treatment she needed. This coverage was critical, as the stem cell transplant alone cost over $600,000. It relieved our financial burden and protected us from the looming threat of reaching our insurance’s lifetime cap before Mia turned three.
I vividly recall the day the Affordable Care Act was enacted and the subsequent Supreme Court ruling that upheld it. Although Mia had passed away before these changes took effect, I felt a wave of relief for countless children and families facing similar battles. This legislation promised that children would no longer be denied coverage for pre-existing conditions, could remain on their parents’ insurance until age 26, and would not face lifetime caps on their health care expenses.
In contrast, current discussions surrounding health care often overlook the realities faced by many Americans. Phrases such as “personal responsibility” and advice to seek employer-provided benefits are misleading and fail to acknowledge the struggles of families dealing with catastrophic illnesses. Even those who seem secure, like my husband and I, found ourselves relying on Medicaid during a critical period in our daughter’s life.
As we stand on the brink of potential setbacks in health care, it’s crucial to remember the vulnerable populations Medicaid supports—children, veterans, the elderly, and those battling mental health issues or addiction. You may not have needed Medicaid yourself, but it’s essential to recognize that life can change unexpectedly, and support systems like Medicaid are vital.
I urge you to reach out to your senators today. Advocate for the health care programs that serve our communities and protect the most vulnerable among us.
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Summary
This narrative reflects on the importance of Medicaid in providing essential health care support during a critical time in a child’s life. It highlights the experience of navigating complex medical treatments and the financial burden that many families face, emphasizing the need for accessible health care for all.

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