To my dear husband,
Entering this new chapter of our lives has been an unexpected journey. We approached labor as novices, armed with what we learned in classes and a few online searches. Yet, through every contraction, you were my anchor, calming my fears and holding my hand tightly. You prayed through the intense moments, and together, we shed tears of joy as we welcomed our little girl into the world. Your words of pride in my strength meant everything, especially during those challenging days when I felt utterly exhausted.
Now, as we cradle our five-week-old bundle of joy, who has inherited your smile, you continue to express your admiration for not just me but for our entire family. Each day, you remind me of my beauty, even on the mornings when my hair is mostly dry shampoo. You manage to look the other way when I munch on the lactation cookies I crafted purely for my own indulgence. You never bat an eye when I declare my need for Starbucks or insist on wandering around Target for hours. My mood swings? Not a peep from you. You simply listen, making the significant changes in our lives feel far less overwhelming. You prioritize our relationship, taking me on dates because you understand how vital it is for us to reconnect.
You love me just the same. No, let me correct that—you love me even more. You encourage me to evolve into the best version of myself, embracing this new identity that comes with motherhood.
Some days are tougher than others, and sleep often eludes us amidst diaper changes and feedings. There are times when I don’t manage to shower and find myself covered in milk and spit-up. Yet, you willingly step in to finish dinner whenever our daughter decides it’s time for another meal. You never complain when I hand her to you with a dirty diaper the moment you arrive home, just so I can have a moment to myself. You tackle the majority of diaper changes and have perfected your half-caf coffee-making skills. You even rise early to tidy the kitchen while I juggle feeding and pumping, all because you want to alleviate my worries.
So, thank you.
Thank you for affirming my abilities as a mother. Thank you for loving me unconditionally, regardless of how I look or feel. Thank you for always seeing me as beautiful, special, and desirable—even on days when I struggle to see it myself.
I am committed to working on loving myself as you love me, because your love is truly the most profound kind. I cherish being your partner in this parenting adventure and thank the universe every day for this beautiful phase of our lives. I know the best is yet to come.
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In summary, I want to express my deepest gratitude for your unwavering support and love during this transformative time. Your presence makes every challenge feel manageable, and I look forward to all the adventures that lie ahead.
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