Let me tell you, I’ve had my fair share of friendships, but there’s this one friend, let’s call her Sara, who has been my saving grace on this wild ride of motherhood. We met back when our kids were little—both in preschool and juggling babies—and we’ve been inseparable mom BFFs ever since.
She’s the first person I reach out to when my child does something that sends me into a panic. Whether it’s a scraped knee or a near-fire incident in the kitchen, she’s my go-to for calming my nerves. Our conversations can stretch for hours, diving deep into the chaotic world of parenting. It’s like we share the same “mom goggles,” viewing the world through a similar lens that only fellow mothers can appreciate.
We share laughs, tears, and commiseration, and honestly, I can’t imagine what my parenting journey would be like without her. With her by my side, I always feel like I have someone in my corner, and that support means everything.
Like falling in love, you just know when you’ve found your mom BFF. Here are some clear signs you’ve hit the jackpot:
- After a parenting fiasco—a kiddo tumbles down the stairs or nearly sets the house ablaze—she’s the first one you want to call to vent your fears and frustrations.
- Your kids adore her and feel right at home around her, often even calling her their second mom.
- You can openly express your frustrations about motherhood, and she’ll understand that it’s just a tough moment. No judgment here!
- She knows you love being a mom, but also gets that you desperately need breaks sometimes. She’s the one dragging you out of the house for a little “me time” when you’re feeling overwhelmed.
- When you’re on the brink of losing it and need a breather, she’ll swoop in to take care of your kids or, if she’s too far away, convince you to hire a babysitter for some much-needed downtime.
- You both share similar parenting philosophies, allowing you to feel completely at ease leaving your kids in each other’s care.
- Her visits are a breeze, regardless of the time or day. You know she’ll pitch in, whether it’s folding laundry or entertaining your kids while you steal a quick shower.
- When your child says something hilariously inappropriate, you can’t help but text her immediately—sometimes even before sharing it with your partner!
- She knows those secret nicknames for your kids that you use only in your head (like “Whiny McWhinerson” and “PeePee LePew”), and you’re privy to hers too.
- While your friendship started with motherhood, it blossoms into other aspects of life. You’re confident that even when your kids have flown the nest, she’ll be the first person you’ll call with news about your first grandchild or when you embarrass yourself in public.
Mom BFFs are essential for keeping our sanity as we navigate the ups and downs of motherhood. They remind us we’re not alone and that we’re more than capable of raising our kids without turning them into tiny terrors. They’re our support system, our laughter, and our partners in this chaotic parenting journey.
Here’s a toast to the mom BFFs who truly understand us and make this wild adventure so much more enjoyable!
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Summary: Finding your mom BFF is like discovering a treasure in the chaotic world of parenting. They provide support, understanding, and shared experiences that make the journey enjoyable. Look for these signs to know you’ve found your perfect mom friend!
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