Let’s be real, the biting phase is no picnic. Having experienced the roles of both the biter and the bitten, I can confidently say that one of those experiences is way tougher for a parent—guess what? It’s not the one getting bitten.
When my son, Max, was about a year old, I received the dreaded incident report from daycare: he had been bitten. As a new mom, my initial reaction was pure horror. I mean, “Call the authorities! My child’s under attack!” was where my mind went. But after a moment of panic, I realized that biting is just a part of toddler life. Max was fine, and in fact, when I asked him about that incident later on, he didn’t even remember it.
Fast forward to just a few weeks ago when I got a call about a different biting incident. This time, my daughter, Ella, was the one doing the biting. My sweet, cheerful Ella had bitten someone not once but four times in just ten days, leading to a conversation with the daycare director about “next steps.” Oh joy.
I was horrified again, but this time it felt much worse. I couldn’t help but take it personally. Was this a sign of my inability to parent? Was my little girl on a path to becoming a future villain? Sure, I knew these thoughts were a bit irrational, but when it comes to our kids, it’s easy to spiral into the worst-case scenarios.
After a glass of wine (okay, maybe two), I reminded myself that this is pretty normal behavior. According to my internet research, Ella’s teachers, and even my co-workers, biting often happens when kids are teething (check!) and haven’t quite developed the vocabulary to express themselves (check!).
It’s been a couple of weeks since the last biting incident, and honestly, I still feel a twinge of anxiety every time my phone rings. I half-expect another call to inform me that Ella has struck again. I might even ask you to sign a waiver before playdates, just to set the expectations, but other than that, we’re doing okay.
And if you happen to be the parent of the child that Ella bit, I sincerely apologize. Your kid must have some seriously tasty cheeks!
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In summary, parenting through the biting stage can be tough, but it’s a common experience that many families face. With a little patience and understanding, we can navigate through these challenges together.
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