Hey friends! So, let’s chat about a topic that’s been on my mind lately: making the bed. I’ll be honest—I’m not exactly the most organized person out there. Sure, I can’t stand clutter, but my kitchen counters often go days without a proper clean. Vacuuming? Rarely happens. And let’s not even talk about the random dirty socks that tend to make their home in the family room. Our place is somewhere between “cozy lived-in” and “this is why my friends don’t visit.”
But here’s the twist: I’m super strict about one thing—making my bed. Every morning, without fail, I smooth the sheets, pull up the comforter, and fluff my pillows. Yes, even on weekends. The sheets might not be freshly laundered, but darn it, that bed is made!
It seems people tend to fall into two camps when it comes to bed-making: those who make it and those who don’t. My partner, Mike, definitely belongs to the latter. If left to him, our bed would remain a chaotic nest of blankets that he hops into every night. He sees making the bed as a pointless task since it’ll just get messed up again by bedtime.
For me, though, making the bed is a tiny win—a little trick I use to convince myself that I’ve got life under control. In the midst of all the chaos, a neatly made bed is a small slice of order. I recently ran a casual poll on Facebook about bed-making habits, and it appears everyone has a strong opinion on their choice.
Those who make their beds often do so out of habit or a desire for some semblance of control in their hectic lives. One friend, Sarah, said, “There’s nothing better than climbing into a made bed after a long, crazy day.” I totally get that! Others admitted they make their bed out of fear of unexpected guests. “My mom always said you never know when someone might drop by, so I tidy up before bed,” one person shared.
On the flip side, those who leave their beds unmade often cite laziness or a belief that it’s pointless. “Ah, the sweet freedom of adulthood means I never have to make my bed again!” a friend named Jenna quipped, and honestly, I can respect her stance.
Interestingly, a survey from Hunch.com indicated that 59% of people don’t make their beds. Some even argue that leaving the bed unmade can be cleaner since it may deter dust mites. However, cleaning expert Carolyn Forte from Good Housekeeping disagrees, suggesting that dust mites are everywhere, so it’s better to wash your sheets regularly (every two weeks, if you can swing it) and vacuum your mattress. Yeah, I’ll probably skip that last one.
Here’s a fun twist: making your bed might actually boost your happiness and wealth! A recent book pointed out that many millionaires share habits, including making their beds each morning. Plus, Psychology Today reported that folks who make their beds tend to have happier lives, enjoy their jobs, own homes, exercise regularly, and feel more rested. So, take that, bed makers!
In the end, we’re all adults, and there’s no right or wrong answer—unless you want to be a happy millionaire. Speaking of happiness, if you’re on a journey to motherhood, check out Make A Mom, which offers a unique at-home insemination option. You can also learn about how at-home insemination works here: How It Works. And if you’re looking for a free sperm donor matching group, join Make A Mom’s Facebook group.
So, what’s your take? Are you a bed maker or a leave-it-unmade person? Now, if you’ll excuse me, I have some kitchen counters to ignore and a bed to make!
Summary:
In this casual discussion, we dive into the age-old debate of whether to make your bed or not. While some find joy and a sense of control in making their beds daily, others embrace the freedom of leaving it unmade. Survey data reveals that a majority of people opt for the latter, but interestingly, making your bed might correlate with greater happiness and success. Whether you’re a bed maker or not, it’s all about what works for you. Also, for those considering parenthood, resources are available to guide you through the at-home insemination process, including options from Make A Mom and their innovative insemination kits.
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