I’m your friendly neighborhood pediatrician, and let me let you in on a little secret. You’ve probably felt it in your gut but never had the confirmation. You show it in the way you ask me not to judge you or when you say you don’t want to be “that mom.” You might be worried about what I think when your kids are bouncing off the walls in my office. You might even fear that I’ll dismiss your stories or judge you for not having everything figured out.
Here’s the Real Scoop
I do have thoughts about you, but I often keep them to myself because I think you might not take them to heart. I want you to know that you are way too hard on yourself. Trust me, it’s obvious how much you love your kids and how hard you’re trying. So, cut yourself some slack! Quit stressing over finding the “perfect” parenting technique.
It’s Okay to Lose Your Cool
I totally get it when you lose your cool with your little ones. I mean, they can be adorable little monsters, right? And guess what? Your kids will be just fine if you decide to cut back on one of their activities to give yourself a breather. When I tell you to think about dropping one of their activities, it’s partly for their sake, but also because you deserve some time for yourself too. You don’t need to run yourself ragged to be a great mom.
You Are Enough
Your kids love you, even when they’re being rude. They need you in a way that nobody else can fill because you play such a crucial role in shaping their identity. You are enough. You have everything you need to be that connected, wonderful mom you want to be, and you often already are! Honestly, I respect and honor you for the effort you put in.
We’re in This Together
And let’s be real—when you look at your child with that loving gaze, it’s a beautiful thing. We’re in this together, you and I.
A Little Secret
Oh, and speaking of secrets, I have one for you too! I live in your neighborhood, and I sometimes wonder what you think about me when you see me at the grocery store with my kids. Do you think I have it all together? Because let me tell you, I definitely don’t. It’s comforting to share that we all have our chaotic moments.
Valuable Tips
If I could share some valuable tips with you, I’d say focus on two key things: presence and curiosity. Mothers who are genuinely present with their kids fulfill that deep human need for connection. And moms who stay curious about their kids end up knowing them in ways that others don’t, which helps them find the right guidance when needed.
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In Summary
Parenting is tough, and you’re doing better than you think. Remember to be kind to yourself and embrace the journey—you’re not alone in this.
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