Let me tell you, I’m not playing around this year. No more stressing myself out trying to create the “perfect” holiday experience. I’m done with the panic and the chaos. Seriously, I’ve been repeating this to myself like a mantra. I’ve let the kids know, given a heads-up to the neighbors, and even informed the delivery guy that my house won’t be a stop on their gift-giving route as much this year. I’m serious about this.
This holiday season, I refuse to drown my family in presents to demonstrate my love. I’ve learned that comparing my gifts to what others are giving just leads me to overwhelming stress and tears on the floor. What feels like love shouldn’t be a mountain of stuff; it should be about cherished moments, not clutter. That’s why I absolutely love the ‘Want-Need-Wear-Read’ gift idea. I used to roll my eyes at it, thinking, “No way, we want ALL the gifts!” But you know what? People evolve.
When the kids started listing their wishes in September, I made it clear: things would be different this year. Initially, they were bummed out about it, but once they absorbed the idea, it seemed to spark some genuine thought about what they really desired. Their dad and I are open to splurging on a couple of meaningful gifts, but we’re steering clear of just piling up items under the tree.
By limiting the number of gifts, shopping becomes way more manageable, and we can focus on creating memorable experiences together. If you’re feeling the pressure to buy your kids everything they might want, don’t worry, you’re not alone. It’s natural to feel nostalgic for our own childhoods. But often, we buy things our kids don’t even want, just to check a box for gift-giving.
It’s a challenge, but I think adults might struggle more with the excitement of gift-giving than the kids do. Still, the reward is so worth it. I’m already finished with my shopping (yes, I’m bragging), and now I can focus on planning a holiday gathering, surprising my kids with a Christmas show, and enjoying quality time baking together — all of which brings me more joy than stressing over last-minute gifts.
When my kids asked what I wanted, I kept it super simple: I want them to behave. And not act like little punks! I need them to behave and I want to see “good behavior” on their report cards. The ‘Want-Need-Wear-Read’ concept really works for everyone during the holiday season.
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In summary, embracing the ‘Want-Need-Wear-Read’ approach to holiday gifting not only simplifies the shopping process but also enhances the meaningfulness of the season. With fewer gifts, we can focus on quality time and create lasting memories, making this holiday truly special.
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