It can be intimidating to meet your internet friends in person, but it’s an experience worth pursuing. Like many moms today, my circle has shifted online. Sure, I used to have a close-knit group of mom friends who understood my parenting style, but the women I connect with online bring something different to the table. We share more than just our parenting struggles. We’re creative souls who bond over our favorite tunes, advocate for social justice, and support each other through life’s ups and downs. We know who’s feeling blue about her marriage or who’s celebrating a kiddo’s big milestone.
But then there comes that moment when someone suggests taking the leap from the digital world to reality. At first, it sounds fantastic—imagine the real hugs instead of emojis, the laughter, and the fun! You can finally learn those quirks that don’t come across through a screen: who nervously bites her nails or who can’t put her phone down. It feels like reuniting with long-lost friends, ready to enjoy a glass of wine or a fun night out together.
However, the reality is that you only know these people through their online personas. As The Huffington Post points out, the way we present ourselves online often reflects how we want to be seen rather than who we truly are. This can leave you wondering what happens when you meet and realize that the real-life version doesn’t quite match up to the curated highlights you’ve both been sharing.
You might even find yourself feeling anxious. What if they don’t like you in person? What if the quirks you keep hidden online come to light? You know, like my morning routine where I belt out Hamilton while applying makeup (trust me, it’s a sight). You might even be nervous about how they’ll react to your quirks, like zoning out mid-conversation or obsessively checking your phone.
But here’s the good news: those fears you have are likely mutual. We all have our awkward moments and insecurities, even if we don’t always show them online. And more importantly, as The Guardian suggests, the person you’ve connected with online is probably a genuine reflection of their true self. If you vibe online, there’s a good chance you’ll click in real life, too.
So, take a deep breath, book that plane ticket, and get ready to meet your tribe. You might even find that your new friends are just as nervous as you are.
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Summary
Meeting your online friends can feel daunting, but it’s a worthwhile experience. The connections made in the digital space often reflect genuine personalities, making the leap to in-person meetings less intimidating than it seems. So go ahead, embrace that fear, and connect with your tribe—you might just discover a deeper bond than you anticipated.
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