Hey there, my friend! I just wanted to drop you a quick note to say I’m really sorry I couldn’t make it to your gathering. Honestly, it’s nothing personal—just a little tiredness on my part. It’s not you, it’s really my kids who seem to have taken over my life.
The Reality of Motherhood
Since I became a mom about five years ago, my sleep schedule has been pretty much non-existent. My brain hit a wall during my first pregnancy and hasn’t quite bounced back. I’m constantly exhausted, and I often find myself repeating the same stories when we catch up. My bad! Sometimes I lose track of what day it is, let alone how to have a normal conversation that doesn’t revolve around the latest PBS Kids shows.
Then I had a second child, and let me tell you, that’s when the real chaos began. My life is now an endless loop of managing my kids’ antics—screaming, laughing, and random discussions about butts. It’s a wild ride!
Why I Couldn’t Attend
So why couldn’t I attend your event? Honestly, if I had a few spare hours, I’d probably choose to do anything but socialize. Don’t get me wrong, I love you, but let’s be real. Here’s what I’d rather be doing:
- Locking myself in my room with a good book, some music, and a glass of wine.
- Taking a glorious nap (seriously, I miss naps).
- Getting my hair or nails done and remembering what it’s like to feel put together.
- Actually going shopping—like real shopping, not just a quick run for groceries.
- Enjoying some delicious Thai food—something I love that my family can’t stand—while listening to my favorite tunes in the car.
- Catching a movie where I can actually pay attention and not talk to anyone for a couple of hours.
I could go on, but honestly, one of the last things I want to do is make small talk with a bunch of strangers. It’s nothing personal against your gathering; I just struggle with some postpartum anxiety, and being in crowded spaces makes me super anxious. It’s a vicious cycle: anxiety, sweating, more anxiety, and so on.
Managing the Chaos
And bringing my kids along? Yikes! The idea of trying to manage a screaming toddler in a room full of new people? No thanks! “Oh, don’t mind him, he does this all the time. Well, not ALL the time. Haha, he’s fine!” Yeah, that would go over well.
So again, I’m really sorry for missing your event, but I promise you’d be thankful I spared you the chaos of a hyper 4-year-old and my awkwardness. Just bear with me a little longer; I will regain my adulting energy at some point! Meanwhile, I’m holding onto my precious free time for myself. After all, they say “Happy wife, less likely she is to burn it all down.” Or at least they should.
Resources for Parenthood
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Looking Forward
In short, I couldn’t make it to your gathering because I’m juggling the demands of mom life, but I appreciate your understanding. Let’s catch up soon—maybe over a quiet cup of coffee when I’m a bit more rested!
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