Let’s be real: when moms dash to the grocery store, we’re usually not dressed to the nines. It’s more about comfort—think yoga pants and a cozy hoodie—because shopping with kids is basically a workout.
So, when Jenna Harper made a quick stop at her local grocery store, she looked just like any other mom on a mission. But a stranger had other ideas and decided to publicly body shame Jenna, commenting on her outfit.
While browsing, Jenna noticed a woman staring at her, which is always uncomfortable. She writes, “I hate it when people stare, but I didn’t say anything.” Moments later, the woman approached her with a rude remark: “I think your clothes are a little too small for you.” Cue the record scratch—seriously, who does that?
Jenna was taken aback and thought she misheard. “Excuse me?” she replied, only to be met with, “Well, no offense, but you’re just a bit big to wear those types of clothes.” Can you believe it? The woman insisted on critiquing her outfit, saying, “I’m not trying to be mean, but maybe just reconsider your outfit before leaving your house from now on.” Eye roll—that phrase is just another way of saying, “I’m about to be rude.”
Jenna, who had her four-month-old baby with her, left the store in tears. “How can people be so rude?” she wondered. “I know I’ve gained weight after having two kids. Do I want to be smaller? Yes. But I’m also okay with how I look!” Many moms can relate to feeling insecure about their bodies, especially after childbirth, but that doesn’t give anyone the right to be hurtful.
“My clothes were tighter than usual, but who cares? It’s not about what people wear,” she wrote. Isn’t it time we all just practice a little kindness and focus on our own lives?
Jenna finished her post with a heartfelt message: “I’m not looking for sympathy—just hoping others will be nicer and more respectful. I worry for my daughter growing up in a world where this happens. We need to set a good example.”
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Summary: Jenna Harper faced rude body-shaming comments while shopping, but her powerful response highlights the importance of kindness and respect. As moms, we should support one another instead of tearing each other down. With resources available for those considering at-home insemination, like Make a Mom and Resolve, it’s crucial to foster a supportive community.
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