Now, I know the idea might sound a bit radical, but hear me out.
Honestly, who enjoys eating lukewarm pasta or cold chicken? I certainly don’t! After you’ve put in the effort to cook, it’s a bummer to sit down to a tepid meal while your kid is happily devouring a hot plate of food. So, here’s a thought—what if we served ourselves first?
I’m not talking about making two separate meals. Just dish up your plate before the kids dig in. This way, you get to savor a hot meal without the frantic scramble of pouring juice, retrieving dropped forks, and dealing with “yucky” complaints. Trust me, the kids will be whining about something no matter when they eat, so let’s prioritize ourselves for a change.
Enjoy Your Meal Without Interruptions
Imagine finally making that delicious recipe you’ve been craving for weeks and actually getting to enjoy it, minus the interruptions. If you’re like me, you might not want to eat the same things as your little ones (sorry, but dinosaur chicken nuggets just don’t cut it). By serving yourself first, you get to indulge in what you want, no sharing required. Plus, if you have a picky eater at home, you won’t be stuck eating the same boring meals night after night. You can break free from the monotony of boxed mac and cheese and instead whip up something that excites your taste buds.
Avoid the Wild, Desperate Eating
Eating when you’re not starving is also a game changer. If you feed yourself first, you might avoid that wild, desperate eating that feels more like a race than a meal. Remember those moments when you’ve inhaled your food because you were just too hungry to care? By the time you get a moment to eat, your dinner is often a sad shadow of what it should have been—lukewarm and slightly congealed.
Wouldn’t it be nice to actually sit down and enjoy your food? Picture it: you might not get peace and quiet, but you could actually have a few minutes to yourself, eating like a human rather than a ravenous animal. It’s about time we take a moment for ourselves amidst the daily chaos of parenting.
It’s Not Selfish; It’s Human
We spend so much of our time focusing on our kids’ needs, and we deserve some time to focus on our own. It’s not selfish; it’s human.
Explore Parenthood Resources
And while we’re on the topic of making choices for ourselves, if you’re exploring options for parenthood, consider checking out resources like Make A Mom for at-home insemination, or join the Make A Mom Facebook group for support. They offer unique solutions like the re-usable insemination kit and the Cryobaby kit for those looking into fertility options. For more information on fertility and related topics, check out Medical News Today to keep yourself informed.
In Summary
Let’s prioritize our own meals and well-being. By serving ourselves first at dinner, we can enjoy our food, reclaim some sanity, and ultimately be better parents.
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