Having a baby is honestly one of the most draining experiences ever. Babies seem to have an aversion to sleep, which can sometimes make you feel like they just don’t like you. In the brief moments of rest I managed to steal while my little ones were infants, I’d find myself dreaming about sleep—those long, blissful hours of uninterrupted rest. Then, just as I’d start to drift off, I’d be jolted awake by a tiny, wiggly creature demanding attention, and I’d sometimes cry out of sheer exhaustion and longing.
I vividly remember the first few times my kids finally slept through the night. Waking up feeling rested after months of sleepless nights was a whirlwind of emotions. After longing for such a moment for ages, confusion was my first response.
And then, the pure joy hit when I realized what had just happened. I started calculating the hours of sleep like I was in an episode of A Beautiful Mind—hours, minutes, even seconds of that amazing sleep were all mine!
It all felt like too much to handle. But because I wasn’t used to this level of happiness, I began to worry that something bad might be lurking around the corner. That’s when the anxiety kicked in: “Oh my god, are they okay?”
I’d rush into their room, peeking over the crib, and my heart would race until I saw they were fine. Relief washed over me, along with an overwhelming sense of restfulness. But let’s be real—if you’re breastfeeding, your body might be just as confused as your mind.
All those feelings were a jumbled mess. I didn’t know how to navigate this newfound sleep, but it felt amazing. You start to realize just how deep your love runs for, well, your bed!
To those of you who might be rolling your eyes, still stuck in that sleepless state, don’t worry. It’ll happen for you too—eventually.
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In summary, the journey of sleep (or lack thereof) in the early months of parenthood can be a wild ride filled with a mix of joy, confusion, and overwhelming love for your bed. Just hang in there, and know that you’re not alone on this rollercoaster ride of parenting.
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