“Zahra? Where are you from?”
“California.”
“And your name? Where’s that from?”
“It’s Arabic; my father is a Muslim.”
“Oh, how interestingly different!”
I’ve lost count of how many times I’ve had conversations like this. When I mention my name’s Arabic origin, people often nod knowingly, as if they sensed there was a deeper story behind it. The question “Where are you from?” is also quite revealing; having a name that isn’t Anglicized seems to suggest I must be foreign. In reality, I’ve never even traveled outside the U.S., despite my “ethnic” name.
When I reveal that my father, who was born in Los Angeles, embraced Islam decades before I was born, it often sparks a lightbulb moment for my conversation partner. It’s as if they can’t fathom that my parents simply chose a name they liked. Navigating life with a “distinctive” name can be challenging, and for people of color, these challenges are even more nuanced.
A Cultural Reflection in Media
In a memorable episode of ABC’s mixed-ish, the storyline revolves around the struggle of black parents selecting a “black-sounding” name for their child. The father, Andre, is set on naming their new son DeMarcus, but others question the choice. With siblings named Zoe, Andre Jr., and Jack, they wonder how DeMarcus fits in. The mother, who is familiar with having a nontraditional name herself, expresses concerns about how a name like DeMarcus might affect their child’s future, especially when a friend mentions he would hesitate to fly with a pilot named DeMarcus Johnson.
This highlights a painful reality: unlike names such as Amerson or Brinlee, which are often viewed as trendy and unique, names like DeMarcus or Jamal carry an “ethnic” connotation that can lead to bias. Ryken might be seen as a potential CEO, while Quayvon could struggle to find stable employment. Even unconventional names like Pilot Inspektor may not carry the same weight of prejudice as names more commonly associated with black culture.
The Impact of Name Bias
The biases against individuals with “different” names are hard to quantify in real-time situations, especially since hiring managers often won’t admit if a name played a role in their decisions. However, research supports these experiences. A study by Marianne Bertrand and Sendhil Mullainathan, titled “Are Emily and Greg More Employable than Lakisha and Jamal?” reveals stark disparities in employment opportunities based on names. Their findings, which involved submitting resumes with either traditionally white or black-sounding names to job ads in Chicago and Boston, showed that candidates with white-sounding names were 50% more likely to receive callbacks.
As someone with an ethnically distinctive name, I often ponder how much it has hindered my job prospects. While applying for receptionist positions in predominantly white areas, I noticed a significant gap between the number of applications I submitted and the interviews I secured. I knew I was qualified, yet I couldn’t help but wonder if employers would prefer a name like Paisley over Zahra, given the context.
Perceptions Shaped by Names
We often overlook how our perceptions of individuals are shaped solely by their names. For instance, a name like Rain may evoke thoughts of free spirits, while Zolten might suggest eccentricity. However, names like Shaniqua often trigger negative stereotypes, associating them with a certain demographic or lifestyle. These biases, whether acknowledged or not, can be deeply ingrained.
Parents should not have to worry about how unique names might impact their children’s lives. Yet, the reality is that biases exist and can be detrimental, as evidenced by countless individuals who struggle to find jobs despite being highly qualified. We cannot ignore the influence of a name in shaping opportunities.
Resources for Unique Names
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Conclusion
In summary, having an uncommon name can significantly impact one’s life, particularly for people of color. The biases against certain names are often subtle yet pervasive, affecting perceptions and opportunities in various aspects of life. We must acknowledge these challenges while continuing to celebrate the diversity that unique names bring.
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