There’s a nagging thought that’s been occupying my mind for weeks—perhaps even months. After Oprah reignited the #TimesUp movement and months after Alyssa Milano brought #MeToo back into the spotlight, I’m reminded of Tarana Burke’s original mission with Me Too, which was to uplift young women of color who have faced sexual trauma. She aimed to protect them and amplify their voices.
But I can’t help but question, is time truly up for those who are the most vulnerable in our society? A 2010 report to Congress revealed that foster children are ten times more likely to experience sexual abuse compared to their peers living with biological parents. Despite Congress being aware of this alarming issue for nearly a decade, these children are still suffering at intolerable rates.
A smaller study focusing on girls in foster care showed that 81% had experienced sexual abuse, with 68% victimized by multiple individuals. One of our advocates, Lisa, has a vivid recollection of her past, yet when it comes to the trauma of sexual abuse, she struggles to remember. She recalls bits of her own abuse but has repressed memories dating back to before she turned eight. However, the accounts of her foster siblings’ suffering are all too clear. The statistic about foster children being at a higher risk for abuse doesn’t surprise her, and she’s acutely aware that the time is still critical for kids currently in the system.
I admire the women using their platforms to speak out for all women, as many of us can relate to their experiences. We think back to times of being objectified at work or feeling pressured to engage in inappropriate conduct to advance our careers. There’s an undeniable bond among women who have endured harassment in the workplace.
However, very few of us can genuinely connect with the plight of foster children. Understanding the harsh realities of a flawed system that punishes low-income families and places children in jeopardy is difficult and uncomfortable, leading many to shy away from it. I fear this means the stories of these children will remain unheard.
As movements like Times Up and Me Too gain momentum, we must also consider how we can help those who are most at risk. Some states are beginning to take action, like New York’s Child Victims Act, which is certainly a step forward, but it falls short of being a comprehensive solution for all affected girls.
While hashtags and localized legislation are a starting point, they merely scratch the surface of a much-needed dialogue about these issues. Educating ourselves about the facts is equally vital. Rather than turning away from the painful truths surrounding sexual abuse within our foster care system, we should leverage our privilege to amplify the voices of those still silenced.
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In summary, as we champion for women’s rights and justice, we must not ignore the plight of foster children. Taking action to educate ourselves and advocate for these vulnerable individuals is imperative for creating lasting change.
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