Dear Middle One,
Hello, my darling! It’s your mom here, and I want to take a moment to express how incredible you are. You possess so many qualities that amaze me—your intelligence, sense of humor, passion, and so much more that I may not always mention but notice every single day.
I see you, truly, and I hope you realize that. You, who find yourself nestled between your siblings, sometimes feel overlooked in the excitement of being the first or the nostalgia of being the last. You may occasionally feel a bit adrift amidst the ups and downs that come with being both the oldest and the youngest.
As my middle child, I want you to understand a few important things. It’s true that sometimes you may not receive as much attention from your parents as your siblings do. Despite my best efforts to balance it all, I’ve seen how easily that happens.
With our first child, everything is new. We learn alongside them, and this often leads to a significant amount of our focus being directed their way. On the other hand, the youngest is the baby of the family. Each milestone they achieve feels like a bittersweet farewell to an era we cherish, leading to a little extra spoiling.
But don’t be fooled—while it may seem like your siblings have more of our attention, you are the heart of our family. You are the sweet filling in the Oreo of our lives, right in the center of everything that matters.
Being a middle child doesn’t define you, but it shapes you in unique ways. You have the distinct opportunity to experience the best of both worlds, learning from being both an older sibling and a younger one. This dual perspective will mold you in ways your siblings may never fully understand.
You’re closer in age to your siblings than they are to each other, giving you a fantastic chance to create lifelong bonds and shared memories. Plus, you don’t carry the weight of expectations that often accompany the oldest, nor do you have to keep up with the chaos of being the youngest.
Being tucked in the middle means you get to enjoy the fullness of our time together as a family. Unlike the older and younger siblings, who may miss out on certain moments, you’re there for the entirety of our journey.
Of course, it can be tough to be the middle child sometimes. You might wish for a clearer role. But here’s the beauty of it: you can be whoever and whatever you want to be. Research indicates that middle children tend to be more open-minded and skilled negotiators, traits that will serve you well throughout your life.
However, studies also show that middle children may feel more distanced from their parents than their siblings do, and that’s something I am committed to changing. You are just as much my child, my heart, and my light as your oldest and youngest siblings. I never want you to doubt your place in our family or my life.
So, my unique and wonderful middle child, please forgive our shortcomings as parents. Embrace your special role and all it offers, and always remember that you are loved immensely, now and forever.
With all my love,
Mom
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Summary
This heartfelt letter expresses a mother’s love and recognition for her middle child, addressing the unique challenges and advantages faced by middle siblings. It reassures them of their importance in the family while encouraging them to embrace their individuality and opportunities for growth.
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