So, you’ve just welcomed a little one into the world, and while dad is eager to rekindle the romance, you might not be feeling quite ready to dive back into that side of your relationship yet. It’s a common struggle, and here’s what some other parents have shared about their experiences on the topic of sex after giving birth.
Experiences from Other Parents
“I tried to jump back in at about 4 weeks postpartum, but it was a no-go. A second attempt at 5.5 weeks felt slightly better, but honestly, it’s still not what it used to be. I guess it’s going to take a little time to feel normal again.” — Sarah L.*
“After my 6-week check-up, I was ready to give it a shot. My husband was so excited he even picked up some condoms on the way home! It wasn’t quite like it was before having the baby, but it was definitely better than how it felt during the last month of pregnancy.” — Jenna T.
“I waited until my doctor cleared me at 6 weeks, but even then, it was still challenging. I had a C-section, and let’s just say, lots of lube was necessary!” — Alex P.
“We waited 7 weeks. It didn’t feel the same, but it wasn’t bad either. I think there’s still some healing that needs to happen.” — Mia R.
“I’ll wait until my doctor says it’s okay. I had a C-section too, and I’m hoping it doesn’t feel terrible. My sex drive really plummeted during pregnancy, so waiting is tough!” — Lisa K.
“Honestly, you just have to give it a try. If it hurts, just stop. Start slowly and use plenty of lube!” — Kim B.
*Some names have been changed for privacy.
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Additional Resources
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Summary
It’s normal for couples to experience a shift in their intimate life after welcoming a new baby. Many parents have shared their timelines and experiences regarding intimacy, with most waiting until after their six-week postpartum check-up. Each experience is unique, and communication with your partner is key to navigating this new chapter together.
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