10 Parenting Judgments I Made Before I Became a Parent

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Judgment is a complex part of human nature. While we often dislike being judged, we can be quick to judge others. I confess that before I became a parent, I harbored some pretty strong opinions about other parents and their choices. I want to share a light-hearted apology for my past judgments, particularly aimed at parents of young children. Here are ten things I once judged, and how my perspective has changed since becoming a parent.

1. Bribing with Treats
   • Before: “I can’t believe they just gave their child a cookie to keep him in the cart. Kids should just listen!”
   • Now: I find myself packing a variety of snacks for every shopping trip. They don’t just sit still because I said so, and I get it now!
2. Using Leashes
   • Before: “A leash for a child? That’s ridiculous!”
   • Now: I see the practicality in keeping a wandering toddler close—while I haven’t tried it yet, I completely understand the appeal.
3. Handling Screaming
   • Before: “Why don’t they just tell their kid to stop screaming?”
   • Now: I’ve found myself rushing out of stores during meltdowns. I’m learning to engage rather than flee, but it’s a work in progress.
4. Planning Around Naps
   • Before: “Do you really have to plan your whole day around naps?”
   • Now: Every single day revolves around nap time. Missing it can throw everything off!
5. Rigid Schedules
   • Before: “Just go out for lunch! Children will adjust.”
   • Now: I schedule everything around my son’s routine, understanding that predictability offers him comfort.
6. Traveling with Kids
   • Before: “Traveling with kids is easy! Just pack the car seat and go.”
   • Now: I dread traveling. Once was enough to teach me about the preparation needed, even for short trips.
7. Being Overprotective
   • Before: “Can’t kids play freely? What’s the harm in a babysitter?”
   • Now: My protectiveness has skyrocketed. I’m hyper-aware of potential dangers and always keep my son in sight.
8. Concerning Germs
   • Before: “Germs are fine; they build immunity.”
   • Now: I carry hand sanitizer everywhere and am even known to sanitize my son’s clothes. Better safe than sorry!
9. Messy Faces
   • Before: “Why don’t they clean their child’s face? It’s not that hard.”
   • Now: I’ve realized that no amount of wet wipes will keep my son clean. Sometimes, I just let it be.
10. Dining Out
    • Before: “Can’t they teach their kids to eat without making a mess?”
    • Now: I apologize for the mess we leave behind at restaurants. Kids and manners don’t always go hand in hand!

Looking back, I recognize how judgmental I was. Being a parent has opened my eyes to the challenges others face, and I have a newfound respect for all parents. To those who are not yet parents, I ask for your understanding, but if you do judge, remember it’s a human trait as we navigate this journey together.

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In summary, parenting teaches us humility, patience, and understanding. Let’s extend grace to one another as we navigate this wild ride.