Last week, while waiting in line for complimentary frozen yogurt, I overheard a fellow mom complimenting my curls as my son played energetically with a new friend. I responded with my usual enthusiastic “Thank you!” but, before I could stop myself, I mentioned, “I’m thinking about cutting it short.” Almost instantly, I regretted my words as her expression shifted to one of shock, leading her to ask, “No! But why?”
I was taken aback. Did I really seek validation for my desire to embrace the #cutlife, or was it merely a casual conversation starter? Still, why did she feel the need to express such a strong opinion about my hair? It made me ponder why some individuals believe their thoughts on others’ appearances hold any weight.
When my friends talk about changing their hair, my response is usually excitement: “Ooooh, what’s the plan?” I rarely try to dissuade anyone from going short—unless we’re talking about bangs. That’s a universally regretted decision after the first week of forehead sweat.
I’m firmly on Team Short Hair Don’t Care; I’ve embraced this style for quite some time. However, since having my little one, I’ve been growing it out again. It’s fascinating how invested people can be in the hair choices of women, especially black women. Our hair often symbolizes our identity and is regarded as our crowning glory, deserving of admiration and scrutiny alike. The struggles surrounding black hair are profound, intertwined with societal norms and expectations, and it’s part of a billion-dollar industry. Women of color have long fought against societal pressures to conform to certain beauty standards.
Fortunately, I’ve found plenty of inspiration for new hairstyles and feel like the Universe is signaling it’s time for a big chop. Social media is flooded with women flaunting fresh cuts, which I interpret as a sign.
I won’t lie; I have my reservations about making such a significant change. It’s been a long time since I did something drastic—two years since I tried a bold blue hue—and I’m anxious about others’ reactions to a big cut. But as Coco Chanel eloquently stated, “A woman who cuts her hair is about to change her life.” I’m ready to embrace that change and shed my old self, starting with the woman in the mirror.
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In summary, cutting my hair is more than just a physical change; it’s about embracing new beginnings. I celebrate the freedom that comes with it and encourage others to do the same.
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