We recently decided to grab a bite to eat. As usual, we parked in a designated accessible space. Nothing out of the ordinary there.
Upon leaving the restaurant, we encountered a vehicle parked directly in front of the loading zone of one of the accessible spots. This area also served as a crucial pathway where the sidewalk transitions into a ramp.
Due to the obstruction, I had to carefully maneuver my daughter’s wheelchair off the curb. Some curbs are so high that I must guide her backward, but thankfully, this one was shallow enough for her to go forward.
As we navigated around the vehicle, I noticed there were occupants in both the driver’s and front passenger’s seats. I struggled to articulate my frustration, but my partner, Emily, managed to voice her feelings first.
What if these individuals have always been dismissive of accessible parking, ramps, and bathroom stalls? What if a sudden accident, a birth defect, or a health crisis changes their circumstances? Will they demand respect for their new needs, despite having overlooked the needs of others for so long?
I implore you: don’t wait until accessibility issues affect you personally. Show kindness and consideration to those who require more than you do, and set an example for your children, nieces, nephews, or even strangers.
We will continue to advocate for our daughter, teaching her to stand up for herself. We believe that accessibility should be equitable for everyone, and I hope you share this sentiment.
“You can’t park here. You’re blocking the ramp, which makes it hard for people in wheelchairs,” I said.
“Like this little girl?”
“I was just here for a minute. The drive-thru messed up my order.”
Emily responded, “That doesn’t matter. You’re obstructing a ramp needed by people who rely on it.”
“Whatever, just shut up!” They sped off, clearly uninterested in hearing our concerns.
While the woman who dismissed our advocacy may not read Home Insemination Kit, I want to speak to her mindset. Accessible parking spots, ramps, and designated loading zones are not meant for casual stops or convenience; they exist for those who genuinely need them. One day, you may find yourself on the other side of this issue.
My daughter was born with a disability, but most children aren’t. However, as we age, our bodies weaken, and many will eventually require assistance, perhaps even just a cane. They may soon find themselves needing the very accommodations they once took for granted.
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In summary, advocating for accessibility is essential. We all should strive to respect and support those who need it, rather than dismissing their needs. Our future selves may be relying on the compassion we show today.
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