As I sit down to write this, it’s hard to believe that just four short years ago, I was penning a piece as you began your high school journey. I remember offering you guidance on staying organized, getting involved in school activities, and knowing when to reach out for help. I encouraged you to build relationships with your principal (which you did), surround yourself with positive influences (check), and familiarize yourself with the library (let’s just say I’ll let that one slide). Time has indeed flown by.
If only there was a way to pause life, I would have pressed that button to keep you in your childhood forever. Now, we stand on the threshold of a significant milestone—one that signifies not just growing up, but becoming an adult. Graduation is your declaration to the world: “I’m ready for what comes next. It’s time for transformation, and I am eager to showcase my potential.”
This moment fills a parent’s heart with both pride and a bittersweet ache. We are excited for your future, yet we also understand the weight of this transition. With every accomplishment comes the realization of what lies ahead.
I know that in your younger years, I often asked too many questions. Please forgive me. My intentions stemmed from a deep desire to connect with you. Your experiences mean the world to me. I learned that you weren’t always seeking solutions; sometimes, you just wanted someone to listen. So, I listened—and in doing so, I discovered how remarkable you’ve become.
You’ve cultivated a strong moral compass, demonstrating kindness to everyone around you. You understand the importance of a firm handshake and remembering names. You know how to set boundaries and still enjoy time with friends. You’ve learned to remain grounded while being humble. Managing money effectively, cherishing moments with family, and letting go of anger are just a few of the invaluable lessons you’ve embraced. In many ways, you have outsmarted me.
High school wasn’t always a walk in the park. It had its share of challenges, and I watched as you transformed from a different person into the incredible individual you are today. Those scars—beautiful marks of resilience—are reminders of your strength and growth. Everyone carries scars, and it’s essential to understand that these experiences are what make you human.
Thank you for allowing me to be part of your journey and for your forgiveness in the moments where I faltered. There were times I wanted to intervene during your struggles, but I realized that standing back was sometimes the best approach. It’s in those challenging moments that you truly flourished.
You have learned what genuine friendship means, and you’ve had the courage to forge your own path, even if it meant missing out on certain social events. You prioritized character over reputation, made tough decisions to spend time at home, and chose to embrace your true self rather than conforming to peer pressure. The laughter you shared with us during those moments was priceless. You worked diligently, and it paid off.
As you prepare for this next chapter (sniffle!), here are a few parting thoughts:
- Always remember that your voice holds power. You can effect change. Now that you’re of voting age, make informed choices.
- The easiest path is rarely the best one. Instant gratification often leads to later consequences. Be prepared to put in hard work, even when it gets tough.
- Choices are always available, regardless of the circumstances.
- Be courageous enough to express your feelings—say “I’m sorry,” “I love you,” or “I forgive you.”
- Live within your means. Experiencing financial limitations in college is a rite of passage. Embrace those days; they’ll be fond memories one day.
- True success isn’t about your job title, education, wealth, or possessions. It’s about who you are, how you treat others, and the life you lead.
- Show gratitude to those who have supported you along the way. Lift others up instead of looking down on them.
- Confidence coupled with a desire to improve the world can create a powerful influence.
- Surround yourself with those who uplift you and distance yourself from negativity.
- Life may not always align with your plans. Be prepared for the ups and downs. Celebrate the successes and seek support during the tough times.
- Never forget that home is always a safe haven, even if it means sharing your space with your sibling.
- Above all, be kind. Always.
I’m stepping back now to witness the next phase of your life unfold. This will be my biggest challenge yet, but I have faith in your ability to navigate whatever life presents. And remember, if you ever find yourself in a financial bind, don’t hesitate to reach out to your Nana instead of me.
While the future may seem uncertain, I have every confidence that you will thrive and evolve. You will carry the lessons of your upbringing with you, contribute positively to your community, and remain true to your values. Your kindness will lead you to success in whatever form it takes.
Good kids still exist, and you are one of them. Thank you for staying true to yourself and for the lessons you’ve taught me along the way. Enjoy your graduation day, and please indulge my desire to capture every moment on camera. I know it can be annoying, but it’s just part of my role as your mom. Some things will never change.
With all my love,
Mom
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