In the world of juggling responsibilities, many wonder, “How do you manage everything?” My response may not be what they expect: “I don’t achieve balance.” I refuse to pretend that balance is a reality; it’s merely an illusion. Instead, I navigate through a haze of chaos, striving to accomplish tasks swiftly and efficiently, all while holding on to my sanity.
A Day in the Life
Consider this scenario: It’s the first day at my new job with a major client, and I’m returning after a nine-week maternity leave with my newborn daughter. I walk into the office with a facade of composure: calm, confident, and seemingly in control. Who has three kids? Not me! Today, I’m a corporate professional, leaving motherhood behind—at least for the moment. This may have once triggered imposter syndrome, but after five years, I’ve mastered the art of faking it, and I’m beginning to believe in my own performance.
On the morning of my new role, everything appears to be going smoothly. I wake the children, get them dressed, and successfully drop two off at school. Just as I pull into my son’s school’s parking lot, disaster strikes: he vomits profusely. Thankfully, I dodge the mess in the driver’s seat, but the backseat is covered in it.
“Stay calm,” I remind myself, but panic quickly sets in when I realize I have just one hour to reach my new workplace. A silent plea to the universe follows—I hope for some kind of miracle. By sheer luck, my mother is available to help, an uncommon occurrence.
In a flurry of distracted driving, I toss the vomit-soaked car seats out of the vehicle, wipe the sweat off my brow, borrow a fresh shirt, and speed towards my new job with the windows down and air conditioning blasting to mask the lingering odor. I arrive with just five minutes to spare.
I greet my new colleagues with a smile, sneak in texts from the women’s restroom to check on my son, and try to focus on my orientation, all while battling guilt for leaving him when he needs me most. But I maintain my facade because, in the working world, we are expected to make chaos look effortless.
The Art of Smoke and Mirrors
This art of smoke and mirrors is a crucial skill for working moms—a hidden requirement in every job description. If we desire career advancement, we must present ourselves as if we’re managing the chaos with ease. However, behind the scenes, it’s a whirlwind. Is it worth it? Absolutely, if you want both a career and a family. But is it easy? Not in the least. It’s a complicated journey.
Here’s to all the working mothers out there—the ones hustling through the daily grind, struggling to balance everything, and feeling anything but adequate. Here’s to the effort it takes to hold it all together while navigating through diapers, deadlines, and takeout. Here’s to the magnificent, multitasking moms who keep it all going, even when it feels like a façade.
Resources for Support
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Conclusion
In summary, the life of a working mother is not about achieving a perfect balance; rather, it’s about mastering the art of presenting a composed exterior while managing the chaos of everyday life.
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