Updated: Oct. 15, 2020
Originally Published: April 25, 2018
As I’ve matured, I’ve come to realize that adulthood isn’t quite as straightforward as I once imagined. The truth is, no one really has it all together; we’re all just navigating our way through life. With time, I’ve learned to assess my priorities and recognize the energy-draining aspects of my daily life. We all have a limited amount of energy to invest, and there are moments when we must simply declare, “I’m done,” and move forward.
Here are several things I’ve decided to stop worrying about:
- Always Being Polite
I’ve spent a lot of my life trying to please others, but as I grow older, I find that I care less about maintaining everyone’s comfort at my own expense. Standing up for myself has become more important than wearing the “good girl” mask. - Royal Family Gossip
While I appreciate a cute baby as much as anyone else, I’m over the constant scrutiny of public figures like Duchess Kate. We’ve had enough of her postpartum perfection plastered across our screens. The royal family just doesn’t pique my interest anymore. - Gaming Time Limits
My kids are avid Fortnite players, but I’m over the endless debates about finishing just one more battle. Dinner is ready, and I don’t have time for virtual escapades. They need to manage their time better, and I’m done stressing about it. - Popularity Contests
Seeing friends out together while I’m at home can sting a little, but then I remember the cozy comfort of my couch. I’m content with my existing friendships and don’t have the energy to cultivate new ones. - Drama and Pettiness
I generally try to assume the best in people, but if someone crosses me, I have no patience for their negativity. Life is too short to engage in petty drama. - Unsolicited Product Promotions
I’m good on leggings, creams, and whatever else you’re selling. My toothpaste works just fine, thanks. - Using Strong Language
Yes, I swear. I find a certain creativity in it, and I don’t mind if my kids pick up a few colorful phrases—within reason. There are boundaries, but I’m not going to pretend to be perfect. - Dishonesty and Insincerity
As I age, I trust my instincts more. I can spot fake individuals from a mile away, and I have zero tolerance for dishonesty or meanness. - Bedtime Routines
Despite my best intentions, family bedtime often turns into chaos, with kids reading under the covers long after they should be asleep. My own bedtime? Forget it; I’m usually scrolling through social media. - Fashion Choices
Whether my kids wear mismatched outfits or I sport sweatpants with a mystery stain, I simply don’t care as long as everyone is dressed. - Toxic Relationships
I’m sensitive and care deeply, but I refuse to let anyone drain my joy. If you’re bringing negativity into my life, it’s time for you to go. - Kids’ Boredom
Boredom is just a lack of creativity, and I’m not here to entertain my children 24/7. Instead, I encourage them to explore and create their own fun. I even have closets that could use some organizing if they’re really stuck. - Obligatory “Shoulds”
I should eat healthier, exercise more, and meditate. But honestly? I’m over the “should” mentality. We do what we can, when we can.
Life is too short to expend our limited energy on trivial matters. I reserve my emotional investment for my family and my work, both in my career and my volunteer efforts. The rest? Not worth my time.
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In summary, I’ve learned to prioritize what truly matters and let go of the rest.
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