Parents everywhere are voicing concerns about Fortnite, the latest sensation in gaming culture. Currently, my twelve-year-old son, Jake, is immersed in his PS4, preparing for an intense match in the vibrant world of Fortnite. He’s about to drop into a game set in the Wailing Woods, where survival is key, hang-gliding into a competitive environment.
Many of Jake’s friends are prohibited from playing Fortnite, while others have their gaming time monitored. I understand the apprehension; I’ve always felt uneasy about video games. Growing up, I had little exposure to violence, and the sight of crosshairs in games like Call of Duty would send shivers down my spine, especially when I was engaged in nurturing activities like baking. It made me question the kind of environment we create by allowing our children to simulate violence in a world already fraught with challenges.
After observing Jake’s increasing obsession while he remained secluded in the basement, I decided to watch him play Fortnite, hoping to determine if my concerns were warranted. The best parenting advice I’ve received is to “react but not overreact.”
Unlike the characters in Call of Duty, who respawn after being shot, Fortnite players don’t return to life after defeat. This aspect intrigued me. I found Jake had already used his $25 gift card from Grandma to unlock a new character skin. He transformed into a character reminiscent of Lola Bunny. In squad mode, he and his friends had to outmaneuver 96 other players, striving for a “dub” or victory. With his headset askew, he focused intently, listening for any signs of danger. His character sported a backpack shaped like an Easter egg, which he excitedly explained was an egg launcher on sale for a limited time.
As I watched, I was surprised to find that I wasn’t alarmed. Instead, I noticed how Fortnite encourages cooperation among players. Jake’s teammates provided him with resources to stay alive, and together they built structures for protection. His character, donned in a bunny outfit, represented a strong female figure—agile and courageous. This realization struck me; Fortnite is not merely about violence but also about teamwork and resilience.
The game encapsulates a microcosm of contemporary life. As players land in key areas, they must navigate a shrinking safe zone under the threat of an ever-encroaching storm. This dynamic mirrors the challenges children face today, where they must adapt to an unpredictable world. The game echoes the training children undergo in schools to respond to emergencies. What fortifications might they devise when faced with real-life dangers?
Perhaps Fortnite is less about glorifying violence and more about preparing for it. Each victory or celebratory emote builds their resilience. After all, if Fortnite doesn’t equip our children with survival skills, who will?
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In summary, while concerns about video games like Fortnite are valid, it’s essential to recognize the potential benefits they may provide in terms of collaboration and resilience. By understanding the game’s intricacies, we can better navigate our children’s experiences in the gaming world.

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