When we made the big move to a new state, I felt confident my kids would easily find new friends thanks to their outgoing nature. I wasn’t too concerned about myself either; managing our busy household and working from home kept me occupied. However, I did realize there was one thing I would deeply miss: the special mom friends who loved my children as if they were their own.
These women had witnessed my kids grow from drooling infants into lively toddlers and now school-aged children facing homework struggles and friendship issues. They were the kind of friends who would pick my kids up from school, even in the midst of a stomach bug, and who would lend a helping hand when potty training turned chaotic. They became my lifeline during those demanding years of motherhood, allowing me to catch my breath on those never-ending days.
Entering the world of motherhood can often feel isolating, as I discovered. I was searching for companionship, support, and a little bit of friendship. That’s why I made a crucial decision ten years ago to join a stay-at-home mom playdate group. This group led me to travel 40 minutes for playdates, brave the sweltering heat at the zoo, and navigate the wildness of Chuck E. Cheese.
Through this community, I found my first mom friends—women I could trust to hold my baby and who reassured me that I was doing just fine. As our children grew, we bonded over our shared experiences, lifting each other up and showing up in pajamas with wine after particularly challenging days. When one of our kids faced academic challenges or health scares, we were there to support one another. We exchanged clothes, shared meals, and even provided extra underpants in times of need.
I will always be grateful for these incredible women, and I want to express my heartfelt thanks. Thank you for remembering my son’s nut allergy while also keeping an eye on his adventurous spirit in your kitchen. Thank you for understanding that while he may want to manage his bathroom needs independently, he often needs some assistance.
Thank you for being kind to my daughter, who sometimes feels overshadowed in a neighborhood full of boys. Your willingness to pull out crayons, glitter glue, and makeup has meant the world to her. Thank you for your gentle guidance, reminding my kids of the importance of good behavior, whether they’re at your house or mine.
Thank you for your honesty when they’ve truly been a handful (and for inviting them back even when they have). Thank you for recognizing my little guy’s desire to keep up with the bigger kids, and for knowing that his eagerness can sometimes lead to tears. Your efforts to slather my daughter with sunscreen to protect her fair skin from the sun have not gone unnoticed.
Thank you for keeping them well-fed—seriously, I can’t believe how much you feed them! Thank you for stepping in and caring for my baby when I had to rush my toddler to the ER; your support during that moment was invaluable. Your name became a trusted entry in the emergency contact section of so many forms, providing me with peace of mind knowing my kids would be safe and loved in my absence.
Thank you for allowing them to make a mess of your home, giving me a moment of peace to collect my thoughts. Thank you for sensing my guilt when they stayed longer than planned and insisting they stay an extra hour—I desperately needed that gift of time. And thank you for arriving at my door with your kids when my house was in chaos, ready to share grilled cheese and good conversation.
Thank you for listening to my son’s magic tricks and his detailed descriptions of his Minecraft worlds, even if you tuned him out occasionally. Your ability to fake interest made a difference in his confidence. Thank you for celebrating their achievements, knowing those victories belong to all of us, even the small ones, like mastering the potty.
Thank you for being there during my lowest moments, when I felt like I was failing as a mother. Your willingness to share your own stories of struggle made me feel less alone. Thank you for loving my children like they are your own. This rare friendship is something I will forever cherish. You are my circle, my tribe, and I love your kids just as much.
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Summary
Moving to a new place can be daunting, especially when it comes to leaving behind friends who love your children as their own. This heartfelt tribute to those special mom friends emphasizes the importance of community and support in the journey of motherhood. These relationships provide invaluable support, understanding, and shared experiences that help navigate the joys and challenges of parenting.
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