As a parent somewhat new to the world of ADHD, my husband and I had our suspicions for years. When our son received his diagnosis, we felt a wave of relief; we wanted to support him, yet nothing we tried seemed to work. The challenges of parenting a child with ADHD are real, and often, we witness struggles that others—family or friends—may overlook. From the emotional breakdowns over screen time to the endless reminders for him to put on his shoes, the whirlwind of energy, and the frequent communications from school regarding behavioral issues, we truly know our children best.
Yet, the comments we’ve encountered throughout this journey have been nothing short of astonishing. Here are the 10 types of individuals you may encounter when you disclose your child’s ADHD diagnosis:
- The Know-It-Alls
These individuals are convinced they have all the solutions to “fix” your child’s ADHD, offering everything from dietary changes to school transfers. They often lack the relevant background in education or behavioral science yet aren’t shy about telling you what you should do. - The True Experts
These are the teachers, parents of other children with ADHD, and special education professionals who have real-life experience. They provide invaluable insights and only share advice when solicited. If you’re navigating this path, seek out these knowledgeable allies! - The Critics
Critics feel compelled to voice their opinions on whether or not your child truly has ADHD. You’ll hear comments ranging from, “He’s just being a typical boy” to “I don’t see any issues.” They often compare your child to others, assuming you haven’t noticed. - The Anti-Medicators
Their first question is usually about medication: “Will you consider medication?” If you say “no,” they breathe a sigh of relief. If you say “yes,” brace yourself for a barrage of opinions. The choice to medicate should remain private between you and your healthcare provider. - The Unruffled
When you mention your child’s ADHD, these individuals remain unfazed. They won’t provide unsolicited opinions but will listen thoughtfully. If you need a moment to vent, reach out to one of these supportive friends; they won’t judge your frustrations. - The Naysayers
Naysayers dismiss ADHD as a mere label, arguing it is overdiagnosed. They often make you feel as if you need to defend your child’s diagnosis, promoting outdated beliefs that discipline alone can resolve behavioral issues. - The Alternative Healers
These individuals suggest removing GMOs and gluten from your child’s diet or applying essential oils as a remedy for ADHD symptoms. They believe in holistic methods to alleviate challenges. - The Inquirers
Inquirers are full of questions about your child’s diagnosis and journey. They are genuinely interested and seek to learn more about ADHD and the steps you’ve taken. - The Judgers
Judgers take mental notes of any moment you lose your patience or raise your voice, then offer unsolicited criticism on your parenting methods. Their comments can leave you feeling inadequate during tough times. - The Champions
These are the people we need more of in our lives. They provide unwavering support without pushing opinions. Their affirmations can be incredibly uplifting on challenging days—words like, “You’re doing an amazing job,” and “We appreciate you recognizing this early on” can bring tears of relief.
Navigating ADHD as a parent can be daunting, but knowing the types of people you’ll encounter can help you prepare and seek out the right support. Remember, it’s essential to connect with those who understand and support your journey, as they can provide the strength you need during tough times.
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Summary: In the journey of parenting a child with ADHD, you will encounter various types of individuals, from critics and know-it-alls to true experts and supporters. Each person brings a unique perspective, but it’s crucial to surround yourself with those who genuinely understand and support your child’s needs.
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