Your sweet little toddler has taken to the unexpected art of feces painting, huh? I can almost feel you sinking your face into your shirt, praying that no one realizes it’s your child transforming their bedroom into a makeshift gallery of poop. Trust me, I understand.
I too have been shocked—not just by the odor, but by the sight of my child’s room resembling a chocolate factory explosion on a sweltering day. Like you, I’ve found myself in tears over this messy situation (yes, literally), feeling utterly outmatched while scrubbing those stubborn poop stains off what used to be a pristine nursery wall.
Despite sharing this experience with other parents, it’s a topic we often avoid discussing. How does one casually ask another parent, “So, does your kid enjoy decorating his walls with feces?” Not exactly a comfortable conversation starter, right? It’s a sensitive issue, and whether it’s a passing phase or a more persistent behavior, we can’t help but wonder: is this normal?
The answer might surprise you—YES! Fecal smearing, or scatolia, is a relatively common behavior among toddlers. While often brushed under the rug, this phenomenon is documented in medical literature, so parents dealing with little “dookie artists” can take solace in knowing they’re not alone.
What Drives This Behavior?
Scatolia can stem from various factors—medical, behavioral, or psychological. Conditions like autism, sensory processing disorder, PICA, gastrointestinal issues, and even anxiety can play a role. Additionally, a history of trauma may also contribute.
If you can rule out medical concerns, take note of when your child engages in this behavior. Is it during quiet times like naptime or bedtime? Toddlers often resort to smearing feces when they lack stimulation, and if they aren’t sufficiently engaged during the day, they might resort to playing with their poop as a form of entertainment.
When my son began this behavior, it was during those quiet moments when he was alone. Identifying this pattern helped me understand that he needed more stimulation throughout the day.
How Can You Put a Stop to It?
For children with autism or sensory processing issues, increasing sensory play can be a game changer. Activities with warm slime, play dough, or even sensory-friendly toys can be effective ways to redirect their need for stimulation. Additionally, using snug clothing like onesies can help contain the mess until you can change them.
While dealing with fecal smearing can be a nightmare, it’s essential to approach the situation calmly. Some children thrive on attention, even if it’s negative. Instead of scolding, maintain a neutral yet firm tone to convey that this behavior isn’t acceptable. Provide minimal attention while cleaning up the mess, which can help deter future incidents.
Cleaning your toddler after an incident shouldn’t be a traumatic experience for anyone involved. However, avoid rewarding them with a fun bath immediately after a mess, as this could create an association between the two. Instead, a warm bath without toys works just fine.
Positive reinforcement can work wonders. Celebrate those moments when your child refrains from smearing poop during typical times. Consider a sticker chart or a small treat to encourage good behavior. Praising them for positive actions builds confidence and reinforces the behavior you want to see.
Remember, You’re Not Alone
There’s nothing wrong with your child, and there’s nothing wrong with you as a parent. Toddlers are navigating the world of cause and effect, and for them, feces can be just another medium to explore. They often don’t grasp that poop is gross; they simply find the act of smearing it fascinating.
Trust your instincts. If you suspect there’s a medical issue at play, don’t hesitate to consult your child’s healthcare provider. There’s no need to feel embarrassed; they’ve certainly encountered all sorts of situations before. And always keep in mind, sometimes, well… things happen.
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In Summary
Scatolia is a common behavior that can stem from various issues, and it’s essential to approach it with understanding and a plan. With the right strategies, you can manage this behavior and support your toddler’s development.
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