Hey society, here’s a wake-up call: not everyone dreams of a chaotic household filled with children. Some women choose to have only one child, while others may not want any at all. Furthermore, not everyone can have a baby every year like your cousin who seems to be on her fifth before hitting 30. Ultimately, the number of children someone has is a personal matter.
So why don’t we keep our opinions to ourselves when we encounter a mother without a crowd of kids? You never know what her journey looks like. Her choices might stem from joy, struggle, or a combination of both. Some moms find fulfillment with just one child, while others might long for more but face biological challenges.
When you see a mother, regardless of how many kids she has, remember this: she’s likely exhausted, working tirelessly day in and day out, and probably craving a moment of peace. So, either surprise her with a coffee and commend her for her efforts, or simply step back. Whatever you do, don’t pry into her life choices because she has only one child.
Confessionals from Parents of Only Children
Confessional #25801193
“I’ve never had ‘baby fever.’ I had one unexpected pregnancy. He’s a wonderful kid, and I love him, but I’m done.”
Confessional #18464317
“I’m happy with my one child. He can be a handful! Sometimes I get a little jealous of others with babies, but then I remember the reality of raising them… Nope, sticking with my one and done plan!”
Confessional #15847144
Countless moms are contentedly in the “one and done” camp. Perhaps we should trust mothers to choose the best path for their families, right?
Confessional #10586447
“I often make excuses for why I have only one child, but honestly, my body handled the first pregnancy well, and I don’t want to risk that again. No apologies here.”
Confessional #17542818
“Why do people judge me for having just one son? I’ve faced loss, and my family is thriving as it is. We’re happy being a family of three, so please don’t judge.”
Confessional #22140570
“Stop implying that my child is missing out or feel guilty about being an only child. Secondary infertility is real, and I can’t handle more heartache.”
Confessional #21654079
“Stop saying my child is spoiled because she’s an only child. She’s a toddler! And I can’t get pregnant, so please just… stop!”
Many women wish for more children but deal with fertility challenges. Intrusive questions only amplify their pain, so it’s time to stop.
Families come in all shapes and sizes, and some sibling relationships can be toxic. Not every family can afford or wants more children. What matters is love, support, and stability, which can come from being an only child just as easily as from a large family.
So, if you’re a “one and done” mom, whether by choice or circumstance, know that you’re doing an amazing job loving that little one (or big one)! And to those who judge others for their family choices, step back and focus on your own. Every mom is doing her best to raise kind humans.
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Summary:
This article discusses the societal pressures and judgments faced by parents of only children, highlighting the diverse reasons why some families opt for one child. It emphasizes the importance of respecting individual choices while recognizing the challenges that can accompany family planning and fertility struggles.
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