Welcome to Ask Home Insemination Kit, where our team provides guidance on everything from parenting challenges to lifestyle choices. This week, we address the struggles of parents feeling isolated in their COVID-19 protocols.
Do you often find yourself saying “no” to your kids while it seems like everyone else is moving on without a care? Are you exhausted from being the one enforcing safety measures? You’re not alone in this situation.
Dear Home Insemination Kit,
I feel like my family is the only one still taking the virus seriously. My kids are really suffering right now. Their friends are having sleepovers and hanging out indoors without masks. I’m tired of being the “bad guy” because I’m always saying no. I used to feel supported in my parenting decisions, but that support seems to have vanished. It’s tough on me, but it’s even harder on my kids. What can I do?
First off, let me assure you that you’re not alone. Many families share your experience. I often feel like I’m living in a song where my name is “NO,” and it can be draining.
Strategies to Manage “No” Responses
Here are a few strategies to help manage those constant “no” responses—besides giving in and allowing your child to participate in risky activities, of course.
- Instead of outright saying “no,” consider phrasing it as “not right now.” For example, when we chose to keep our kids engaged in remote learning while others returned to in-person classes, we framed it as “not right now.” If circumstances improve, you can revisit those decisions and feel more comfortable making adjustments.
- Remind your kids that you’re teaching them the importance of making their own choices, even if it means standing out from the crowd. Just as our parents used to tell us, “if all your friends jumped off a bridge, would you?” you can adapt that to, “if all your friends were swimming in a sea of germs, would you?”
- You might also want to reconsider your social circle during this time. You don’t have to sever ties with friends who have different views on COVID-19 safety—unless they’re conspiracy theorists, then it’s perfectly fine to say goodbye. Instead, seek out families that share similar values and safety practices, and nurture those connections.
- Lastly, look for opportunities to say “yes” wherever possible. If your kids want an extra hour of gaming, say yes! How about a second scoop of ice cream? Sure! A puppy? Maybe think that one over. The idea is to find moments where you can relax the rules and say yes, enhancing their experience during this challenging time.
And when all else fails, remember that FOMO can feel a little less heavy with a bowl of ice cream in hand.
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Summary:
Many parents are navigating the challenges of enforcing COVID-19 safety measures, which can lead to feelings of isolation and frustration. It’s important to communicate with your kids in a way that balances safety with understanding their needs. Adapting your responses, seeking like-minded families, and finding opportunities to say yes can help ease the burden of being the “bad guy.”
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