Someday, we will look back on this tumultuous year with pride for what we managed to endure. We’ll remember the birthdays we missed, the graduations that didn’t happen, and the weddings that were canceled. We’ll reflect on the isolation, the quarantine, and the necessity of solitude to keep others safe. We’ll recall the anxiety and fear of potential exposure to the virus and its implications for our families. And we’ll think of all the uncertainties that loomed over us week after week.
But today, we’re still navigating through these challenging times, especially as we approach the holidays, which will inevitably lack some cherished traditions and require adaptation to the realities that 2020 has forced upon us. We might find ourselves separated from relatives or unable to enjoy the large family dinners we usually do. This is our current reality until we emerge from the shadows of this devastating pandemic.
2020 has, in many ways, become the “year of loss.” It’s a year where we’ve missed outdoor concerts, 4th of July barbecues, and neighborhood block parties. Our kids have missed school field trips, school plays, and collaborative projects with friends. We’ve missed family gatherings for birthdays and Halloween turned into quiet movie nights at home.
While we’ve lost much this year, it won’t last forever. For now, let’s cherish our online connections, savor family time (yes, all the precious family time), and hold on to the hope that someday we can reunite, bask in the sun at community festivals, and feast together in celebration of our survival.
Confessions of Loss
Many of us are mourning the absence of intimacy in our relationships.
- Confession #25804403: I miss being young and full of desire.
- Confession #25804632: I long for his touch. Work keeps us too busy to connect, and I miss those passionate moments we used to share.
- Confession #25799898: A lot of people are feeling the void of relationships that have either ended or been put on hold due to COVID. We crave connections, hand-holding, hugs, and yes, even those steamy nights.
With all this, we’ve witnessed our kids missing out on critical social interactions and educational experiences, while other families make choices that seem careless. It’s heartbreaking to see our children upset while others are enjoying birthday parties and gatherings.
I feel torn with my cousin, who I once was close to but now have vast disagreements with. I miss her and struggle to find the right balance between cutting ties and reaching out.
- Confession #25804838: I wish political events hadn’t led us to start anew in another country. I miss my previous life.
And let’s not forget the emotional toll of living through a pandemic, compounded by the turmoil of our political climate. We miss the simplicity of life before the chaos, including the ability to enjoy outings to the mall or the library without fear.
- Confession #25804760: I miss seeing people smile.
- Confession #25804864: I miss vibrant spaces like video arcades and bustling malls.
- Confession #25801322: I even miss the library.
This year has stripped us of our social interactions and connections, making us painfully aware of the little things we once took for granted. We long for the days of coffee outings, nights out with friends, and the joyous chaos of crowded events.
Working from home while managing remote schooling for the kids has become exhausting. I chose to keep them home for their safety, yet I sometimes wish for a moment of peace.
- Confession #25801056: My partner finally returned to work after months, and while I craved some alone time, I quickly found myself missing his presence.
As we navigate this strange limbo, we find ourselves forgetting how to be alone and how to enjoy the company of others. 2020 has undeniably changed us, taking away the connections that once filled our lives with joy and purpose.
With hope, a new administration will bring about changes in how we handle the pandemic, offering us a real chance to overcome it. Then, we can envision hosting block parties, where our kids can celebrate with bounce houses and ice cream trucks at their birthday gatherings.
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In summary, this year has taught us the value of connections and the simple joys of life that we often overlooked. As we face these challenges, we hold onto hope for a brighter future where we can reclaim the moments we’ve lost.
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