When the COVID-19 pandemic hit the West Coast last February, many individuals found themselves hurriedly canceling their travel plans. The novel coronavirus represented not just a health crisis but a significant shift in our daily lives. One of the hardest adjustments was the abrupt halt on non-essential travel and social events. Many expressed their frustration over missing out on Broadway shows or being stuck on hold with airlines. The letdown of not making it to Disney was almost like a heartbreak.
I get why people were upset about canceled vacations, but I couldn’t help but roll my eyes at the frequent use of terms like “deserve” and “need.” For many, the disappointment stemmed from feeling entitled to an escape that was no longer available. But let’s be honest: no one truly needs a vacation. It’s worth exploring the privilege behind that mindset.
If the biggest stressor for you during the pandemic was the cancellation of your vacation, consider yourself lucky. And maybe think twice before sharing that on social media. While we all yearn for travel, broadcasting your grievances can come off as tone-deaf, especially when many people never even get the chance to take a vacation.
I often remind my children about the distinction between needs and wants. They desire numerous things, but needs—like food, shelter, and clothing—aren’t always glamorous. Sure, a new LEGO set or a trip to a water park is exciting, but I encourage them to save for those wants. I’m grateful to provide for their essential needs and often highlight the security we have.
Most of the time, my children understand the difference between what they need and what they want. However, it seems some adults fail to grasp this concept. It’s disheartening to see grown individuals throw fits over not getting their wants, particularly during a time when countless people are grappling with health issues, job losses, and financial insecurity. The more people pine for their vacation homes and what they label as a “much-needed” escape, the more others are on the brink of losing everything.
Right now, we all crave an escape, but for many, a simple fast-food drive-thru or a leisurely walk is the best they can hope for. If you’re claiming to “need” a vacation, you might be overlooking the real struggles faced by those around you. When you plan a getaway and post photos captioned with how much you “needed” it, you inadvertently highlight your financial privilege. Having the means to travel is a luxury, so spare us the victimization narrative.
While I acknowledge the importance of mental health and the need for breaks, let’s not conflate financial privilege with the ability to escape through travel. Hard work and sacrifices exist across all socio-economic levels. People who can’t afford vacations also put in the effort; they’re not to blame for their mental health challenges. Therapy and support are vital for mental well-being, not necessarily a getaway. Sure, vacations can alleviate stress, but they don’t address serious mental health issues.
Everyone deserves a chance to relax and recharge, but not everyone can afford the luxury of travel. Prioritizing funds for vacations is different from making ends meet. Vacations, even in the best of times, tend to cater to the upper middle class and the wealthy. Sure, people from various backgrounds take trips, but I would never claim entitlement to one. I recognize my privilege and am aware of the world around me.
So, let’s avoid humblebragging about our travel plans. It’s essential to acknowledge that opportunity plays a significant role in our experiences. If you’re fortunate enough to plan a trip during these challenging times, take a moment for self-reflection and show some sensitivity toward those who are struggling. Waiting until the pandemic is over to travel also ensures everyone’s safety, especially for those who can’t venture out due to health concerns.
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Summary:
The article discusses the misconception that vacations are a necessity, especially during the pandemic. It highlights the privilege associated with the desire to travel and encourages readers to reflect on their own circumstances. It emphasizes that while everyone deserves relaxation, not everyone has the means to travel, and mental health care should not be equated with vacationing.
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