Dear Home Insemination Kit,
My partner and I don’t go to church. While we’re not strictly atheists, we identify more as agnostic. He was raised Catholic, and I grew up in a Presbyterian household but didn’t attend church regularly. Our 7-year-old son has noticed that some of his friends go to church every Sunday, and he’s recently asked why we don’t. I’m thrilled that he’s curious, but I’m unsure how to respond without making him feel like there’s something wrong with our choice. We’ve given him simple answers about Jesus and God, but I want to encourage his interest without overwhelming him.
It’s great that your son is showing curiosity! When it comes to complex topics like religion, honesty is key. Keep your responses straightforward, age-appropriate, and always leave room for further questions.
If you have any beliefs about God or spirituality, share those with him. You might say, “I believe in a higher power, but I express that belief in my own way, which doesn’t include going to church.” Explain how you connect with your spirituality outside of organized religion—this could be through nature, meditation, or personal reflection. Your partner can share his perspective too.
Since you haven’t mentioned any negative experiences with religion, it sounds like you both simply prefer not to engage with organized faith. If he’s interested in learning more about the subject, you could explore the history of various religions together. It’s important to note that many children don’t have a say in their family’s religious practices, while your family has chosen a different path. This can lead to meaningful discussions about belief systems and cultural differences.
At this age, he might just be curious about why his friends dress up and go somewhere every week. Regardless, he’s learning valuable lessons about diversity and belief!
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In summary, your son’s interest in religion offers a wonderful opportunity for open dialogue about beliefs. Be honest, encourage his curiosity, and share your own perspectives on spirituality in a way that feels comfortable for your family.
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