Dear Home Insemination Kit,
My daughter is 13, and this age comes with its own set of challenges for both of us. Like many kids, she has struggled throughout the past year, particularly with the absence of her friends. Being an extrovert, she thrives in social settings, but unfortunately, none of her friends are still doing full-time remote learning. Most of their families seem to have relaxed their pandemic precautions, making it hard for me to feel comfortable letting her get together with them unless it’s outside and socially distanced. She desperately wants to return to school, and I share that wish, but I just don’t feel it’s completely safe right now—especially since we live in an area where masking rules are not strictly enforced and community transmission remains a concern. How can I help her navigate this situation?
First, I want to send a virtual hug to both you and your daughter. Being 13 is tough enough without having to face such unprecedented times. It’s commendable that you are so in tune with your child’s needs and are following your instincts, even if they place you in the minority. That’s no small feat, and I’m giving you a high-five from afar.
To help her cope, it’s essential to emphasize the value of consistency. If remote learning has been working for her, even if it’s not perfect, then making a drastic change during the final grading period might not be the best idea. You’ve all dealt with enough upheaval this year, and you’re almost at the finish line.
Consider planning some enjoyable activities for her to look forward to as summer approaches. Whether it’s a weekend getaway to a favorite spot, a special mother-daughter day filled with shopping or hiking, or even a socially distanced s’mores gathering with her friends, having something to anticipate can make a world of difference. If you can plan multiple events, even better!
It’s likely that you’ve already discussed this, but it’s worth reminding her that families are handling the pandemic in various ways. Her friends and their families are making choices that differ from yours, and that doesn’t necessarily indicate poor judgment. With so many people getting vaccinated, there is hope on the horizon, but we still have to remain cautious until herd immunity is reached and children can receive vaccines. While she may understand this on some level, she is still a kid who misses her friends, and the fear of missing out (FOMO) is very real at her age. It’s tough, but with your support and things to look forward to, she will get through this—and so will you. Hugs.
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Summary:
Parenting during these challenging times can be overwhelming, particularly when your child is the only one in their friend group still learning remotely. It’s crucial to find ways to provide emotional support and create anticipation for future activities. Remind them that every family is navigating this situation differently, and focus on maintaining consistency in their education.
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